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Equal Parenting How To's

Equal Parenting is like a Three Layer Cake. 

"Without Cause or Consent, no Child shall be removed from a Natural Parent!!!

"Two Equal Parents may .. agree to unequal Parenting Time, but this does NOT impugn the Parental Authority of either Natural Parent relative to Third Party Interlopers.

1.  The Bottom Layer:  The Initial Equal Parenting Agreement

Initial Equal Parenting Agreement creating full time, all time equality of both natural parents, subordinate to no third parties (a Constitutional right ignored by most Family Courts); a series of tentative Parenting Timetables for each year and statement of intent, or  "Wishes"; the requirement that the tentative Parenting Timetable laid out there will be reviewed and finalized annually and incorporated into the Annual Parenting Supplement.  Parental authority and discretion is always equal and unaffected by inequalities of Parenting Time allocations.

2.  Middle Layer:  The Annual Supplement & its Parenting Timetable

At-A-Glance® Erasable Yearly Vertical Jumbo Wall Calendar, 48" x 32", 2005Yearly Annual Parenting Supplements for planning the school year and finalizing the Parenting Timetable for the upcoming  parenting year.  Parenting Timetable must meet the test for equality established in 1) the initial Equal Parenting Agreement.

3.  Top Layer:  Autonomy of Both Equal Parents on all matters not previously Constrained.

Parenting Timetable alternates all residual parenting questions between the two otherwise equal parents who are subordinate to no third parties.  Full autonomy of each parent during their Parenting Time as allotted in the agreed Parenting Timetable on all residual parenting questions not previously constrained by Covenants in the initial Equal Parenting Agreement, or the current Annual Parenting Supplement.  Full discretion on residual parenting with the Timetabled Parent, but flexibility encouraged and provided by Ad Hoc Agreements.

4.  Icing on the Cake.....

Forget about the Courts, and your Ex, and go have fun with your kids!!!







More:  About:  Equal Parenting How To's:  Three Layer Cake;
About:  Grandparents in Equal Parenting;
About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
About: EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
About:  EP Trek Generic Calendar:
Issues:  Kinship Families or Grandparents raising Children::

Senator Anne Cools, FTSOTC Chair on False Accusations &
Law Societies' permitting Lawyers to Lie in Court

Senator Anne Cools, FTSOTC Chair, formerly Liberal, now Conservative

Anne Cools - Google Search
Anne Cools - Google Video

Anne Cools' Website
 Anne Cools on False Accusations

EP Nemesis, Liberal Hedy Fry, the Queen of FALSE ACCUSERS

"Honourable senators know that I have studied a terrible and pernicious heart of darkness that has developed in our court system, being the use of FALSE ACCUSATIONS in civil justice.

This is the mischief of litigating parties, usually mothers, suddenly within the context of divorce and within child custody proceedings falsely accusing the other party, usually fathers, of the sexual abuse of their own children.    ,,,    

These FALSE ALLEGATIONS are often made with the overt or covert complicity of their lawyers. They are a lethal weapon in the business of parental alienation. They are a tool for achieving sole custody of children and creating fatherlessness."

Identified Issue: Canadian Law Societies' General Failure to Self Regulate, Members permitted to Lie in Court, Anne Cools' Bill 2-12 provides an answer

2004-06-08  SENATOR ANNE COOLS LEAVES LIBERAL FOLD TO JOIN   

Senator Anne Cools Runs Away With The Suns's 10 Top Women Poll, Kevin Connor, TO Sun

2004-06-08  Liberal senator < Anne Cools >  goes Conservative

1997-10-28 Child Custody and Access Reform, Special Joint Committee Established

More:  Issues:  Cools, Senator Anne
Issues: False Accusations;
Isues Womens Shelters' Scam
Issues:Senator Anne Cools
News:  Liberal Hedy Fry / Status of Women (SOW):
Issues:  Pedophiles Fear Dads

Liberal Irwin Cotler:  "Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS"

Irwin Cotler, former Liberal "Justice" Minister robbed Canadians of their NATURAL PARENTS' Rights

Irwin Cotler - Google Search;
Irwin Cotler - Google Video


"Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS....  ONLY RESPONSIBILITIES....

"Natural Parents' Rights now  gone with my Homosexual Marriage bill"

16.10 Maximum Contact & Friendly Parent Rule has to go to conform to Judicial Practice, or Judges may be held in criminal BREACH OF TRUST"


FYI, the ideas that the State assigns Rights & Responsibilities to it's Citizen is straight from pre-war Nazi Germany.   Under the British system rights are not State-given, but God Given.

Buying into the Court's position that what rights remain are Children's Rights, is buying into the same position that "<Natural> Parents have no rights", and Canadian Children are at birth the property of the Courts.

More:  News:  Cotler, Irwin:  "Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS...;
News:  European Union;
Issues:  Paul Watson:  Nazi Origins of European Union;;;
Issues: G. Edward  Griffin ;
Issues: Fabian Socialism;

Darrin White, RIP of Prince George, BC

Death by Judicial Kleptomania - Manslaughter, Suicide, March 2000

Darrin White, suicide, Prince George - Google Search;
Darrin White, suicide, Prince George - Google Video

"Darren White died in March of 2000 by his own hand. BC Supreme Court Master Doug Baker had just ordered Darren to pay $2,071 per month in child and spousal support. His monthly income at the time of that order was only $950 after taxes.  

..He was also paying $439 a month to support an older child from a previous marriage.

... No one would listen to my father , no one would give him a chance to speak. ... My dad was an abused husband, he was abused by his wife, and the justice system.  ... He was a kind man who fought a good fight but no matter what he did or said, he could never win with this system."

More...   Testimonials: Darren White, RIP
Testimonials:  Mark Dexel, RIP of Kamloops, BC;
Testimonials:  Manley, Perry:  RIP
Testimonials:  Jeffery, Hal & Danica
Issues:  Custody Orders not Enforced;
Issues:  Parental Alienation Syndrome;
Issues:  Imputed income;
Issues:  Child Support Fraud;
Issues:  Debtors' Prison Reinstituted

Beware of the "Parental Rights" IMPOSTER!!!!

"Natural Parent's Rights" Vs "Parent's Rights"

Be on the lookout for the "Parent's Rights" IMPOSTER.  Insist on "Natural Parents Only", please!

It comes as a big surprise to us that many groups that present themselves as "Parents Rights" groups  REFUSE to defend the  NATURAL PARENT, and  and to demand RESTORATION of Natural Parents Rights taken from Canadians in the Homosexual Marriage legislation.

Instead their position to promote the "rights" of  a "Parent" in the widest sense of the word, making NO distinction  between NATURAL PARENTS and wannaabe Legal Parents.  They have bowed to University of Victoria's  assertion that  the SCC's Trociuk Decision "endorses a Heterosexual View of the Family and must be ignored", legitimizing the ongoing Child Trafficking by the State which views Canadian children as State Property and merchandise for  sale in the lucrative Child Adoption Market  They refuse to be hampered by prior obligations to that pesky Natural Parent who thinks they can Veto an Adoption.


It appears that many "Fathers Rights" groups commonly fall in with the United Nations and Liberal Irwin Cotler's assertion that the Child's Right is to be protected, but the Natural Parent has "NO RIGHTS", making the State, not the Natural Parents the Protector of the Child..

Without Cause or Consent, no Child shall be removed from a Natural Parent!!!

More:  About:  Beware of the IMPOSTER!!!!  "Natural Parent's Rights" Vs "Parent's Rights";
News:  Lessard, Hester - Heterosexual view of Parenthood must be ignored
News:  Smith, Judge Daphne, BCSC, for Child Trafficking;
Issues:  Trociuk, Darrell;
Issues:  Child Trafficking, Canadian;
Testimonials:  Rick Fredrickson of Saskatoon

Common Law Perverted by Activist Judges and Legal Oligarchy

Chapter VII. The English Common Law. Section 57. The Norman Conquest

A beautiy of British  Common Law is that it is STATIC, and NOT DYNAMIC as these Activist Judges would have you think.

Ask a lawyer what "Common Law" is and they will likely tell you it is "Judge Made Law", and expand up this to say "Common Law is whatever the Judges are commonly saying these days"

This is completely FALSE.  The Judges are Agents of the Crown and they BY DEFINITION Judges are WITHOUT CAPACITY to make any law whatsoever.  Since 1649, only PARLIAMENT has the Capacity to make Law.

British Common law was NOT created by Judges, it was only observed and documented by individuals sent out by the newly Norman Crown after the Norman Conquest of 1066  to observe and codify the laws and customs of the various peoples of Britain..  This was done with a view to aggregate existing customs which may vary across the land,  into a unified body of Laws.  The Authority quoted by the Commoners in their administration of Common Law were frequently direct quotations from the Bible and principles of Danelaw

The process of documentation took only a couple of hundred years, and the product was a STATIC body of Law which was historical, popular, and has served in the intervening centuries as a Benchmark against which Statutory Law may be measured for "Fairness".  It does NOT change.

More:   Issues:  Common Law Perverted by Activist Judges and Legal Oligarchy;
Issues:  "Judicial Interpretation" to pervert Statutes of Parliament;
Issues:  Judicial Activism is Breach of Trust;
Issues:  Judicial Globalization is Treason

Equal Parenting Roundups for Natural Parents' Rights

An EP Roundup is a gathering of NATURAL parental rights groups that are within driving distance of one another.

An "Equal Parenting Roundup" is a gathering of all the disparate parental rights groups that are within driving distance of one another.  Whereas any group can call an "Ad Hoc" Roundup with their neihbors, we hope you will have at least one annual EP Roundup an incorporate it into the Equal Parenting Trek

An Equal Parenting Roundup is an exercise in your Freedom of Assembly and Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Assembly, following some of the traditions that established our Supremacy of Parliament

More:  About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
About: EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
EP Trek Generic Calendar;
About:  Equal Parenting How To's:  Three Layer Cake;
About:  Grandparents in Equal Parenting;
About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
About: EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
EP Trek Generic Calendar:Issues:  Kinship Families or Grandparents raising Children::
About:  Grandparents in Equal

Equal Parenting Trek, an annual "Progressive Convention" of Equal Parenting Roundups

More:  About:  EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
Meetings:  EP Trek Generic Calendar

Senator Anne Cools on the Evil of False Accusations

Anne Cools - Google Search

Anne Cools' Website
 Anne Cools on False Accusations

EP Nemesis, Liberal Hedy Fry, the Queen of FALSE ACCUSERS

"Honourable senators know that I have studied a terrible and pernicious heart of darkness that has developed in our court system, being the use of FALSE ACCUSATIONS in civil justice.

This is the mischief of litigating parties, usually mothers, suddenly within the context of divorce and within child custody proceedings falsely accusing the other party, usually fathers, of the sexual abuse of their own children.    ,,,    

These FALSE ALLEGATIONS are often made with the overt or covert complicity of their lawyers. They are a lethal weapon in the business of parental alienation. They are a tool for achieving sole custody of children and creating fatherlessness."

More:  Issues:  Cools, Senator Anne

Jay Hill, MP (Prince George – Peace River)

We are also fortunate to have Jay Hill, MP (Prince George – Peace River)  here in British Columbia. 

“I’m pushing for equality —both parents should have equal rights and equal access to their child,” Hill said. “The courts seem to start from the premise that somehow fathers aren’t responsible parents. But both parents are deemed good parents as long as the marriage lasts; why are they not when the marriage ends?”   

More:   Jay's site;
Iissues:  Hill, MP Jay.

Paul Forseth, past M.P., (New Westminster-Coquitlam-Burnaby)

We are fortunate in British Columbia to have a number of pro-family parliamentarians.  Of particular prominence is Paul Forseth, M.P. -  member of the "For the Sake of the Children" Committee, co-author of the Dissenting Opinions, and a staunch advocate of pro-family concerns.  Paul has put in many years pushing to have Equal Parenting issues brought forward to the Canadian Parliament, and faced fierce opposition from the Prime Minister.   Both Paul and Senator Cools have pressed on to redeem fathers from groups like the Status of Women (SOW) enduring multiple death threats from various radical feminist groups while serving on the Committee.  These MPs are tough.

Monday Nov.7th 2005   Dear Equal Parenting-BC:    "Conservatives are committed to Shared Parenting. The national party “Policy Declaration” that was passed by delegates at our March 2005 Montreal convention says clearly that:   65. Shared Parenting:    A Conservative Government will make the necessary changes to the Divorce Act to ensure that in the event of a marital breakdown, the Divorce Act will allow both parents and all grandparents to maintain a meaningful relationship with their children and grandchildren, unless it is clearly demonstrated not to be in the best interests of the children.    

My Liberal colleagues that served with me on the Senate-Commons committee that wrote the “For the Sake of the Children report, admitted that they have little confidence that their Party will ever enact the needed amendments to the Divorce Act, that completely fulfills the report recommendations. The NDP opposed us during the Committee process, and have never been supportive of dads.

Conservatives are the only hope for fairness and reasonableness in Divorce and Family Law. I encourage those who care, to focus their energy where it will help the most, by working to elect as many Conservatives as possible. I hope that the many who are frustrated, not become sidetracked into protest, which does nothing during an election but undercut our ability to make good things happen. The Liberals and the NDP will say anything in an election to get a vote, but they will never deliver “shared parenting”. Every vote that does not go to a Conservative in the next election is a vote against “shared parenting”. Paul Forseth MP

Betty Hinton, MP (Kamloops Thompson)

Many thanks to  Kamloops MP Betty Hinton for standing up in Parliament  for us against the State funded FATHER HATRED of the Status of Women.  For an example of Betty's provocative advocacy, see:  Betty Hinton, Kamloops Thompson MP speaks against SOW's promotion of Father Hatred

Roger Gallaway, MP (Sarnia-Lambton, ON, Liberal)

Although not from British Columbia, and less familiar to us, we cannot neglect to recognize the solid support of once Liberal MP, Rodger Gallaway of Sarnia.  Gallaway and Cools were frequently photographed together while championing the rights of children to both NATURAL PARENTS.

Arnie Hein's, "Cross My Heart" Equal Parenting Trek CA 2005

Arnie Hein "Cross My Heart" - Google Search;
Arnie Hein "Cross My Heart" - Google Video

Arnie Hein is embarking on a cross-Canada cycle to raise awareness regarding the Father being stripped of
the family by the Family Court System. He is seeking fairness.

" I want my kids back, at least half the time. I want this law that removes children from their fathers - and fathers from their children -to change. I am cycling across Canada to raise awareness of this problem.

I need other fathers to know they are not alone. I want to unify the men and children abused by this Family Court System. It is important that the general public becomes aware of this problem. "


Arnie Hein

More:  Issues:  Hein, Arnie: "Cross My Heart" Equal Parenting Trek 2005;
Meetings:  Equal Parenting Trek 2005

McKenzie & Pedersen, the "Two Robs",
Equal Parenting Bike Trek US 2006, 2007...

Robb MacKenzie Equal Parenting Bike Trek - Google Search;
Robb MacKenzie Equal Parenting Bike Trek - Google Video

Rob Pederson, Equal Parenting - Google Search;
Robert Pederson, Equal Parenting - Google Video

Cycling4Children.com Equal Parenting Bike Trek's photostream

More:  Issues:  McKenzie & Pedersen, the "Two Robs", Equal Parenting Bike Trek US 2006, 2007...;
Issues:  Smith, Ron:  DC Family Preservation Rally, Compulsory Drugging of Children;
Issues:  Compulsory Drugging of Children, Thymerisol;

Liberal Irwin Cotler:  "Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS"

Irwin Cotler, former Liberal "Justice" Minister robbed Canadians of their NATURAL PARENTS' Rights

Irwin Cotler - Google Search;
Irwin Cotler - Google Video

"Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS....  ONLY RESPONSIBILITIES....

"Natural Parents' Rights now  gone with my Homosexual Marriage bill"

16.10 Maximum Contact & Friendly Parent Rule has to go to conform to Judicial Practice, or Judges may be held in criminal BREACH OF TRUST"

FYI, the ideas that the State assigngs Rights & Responsibilities to it's Citizen is straight from pre-war Nazi Germany.   Under the British system rights are not State-given, but God Given.

Buying into the Court's position that what rights remain are Children's Rights, is buying into the same position that "<Natural> Parents have no rights", and Canadian Children are at birth the property of the Courts.

More:  News:  Cotler, Irwin:  "Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS...;
News:  European Union;
Issues:  Paul Watson:  Nazi Origins of European Union;;;
Issues: G. Edward  Griffin ;
Issues: Fabian Socialism;

Allan Rock, Liberal:



Imprisonment  & Removal of Drivers' Licenses, Passports for Non-Payment of Imputed FMEP Debts, UN's Agenda 21 Implementation, Termination of Free Speech

Allan rock, liberal - Google Search;
Allan rock, liberal - Google Search


More:  News:  Rock, Allan, Liberal:  Imprisonment  & Removal of Drivers' Licenses, Passports for Non-Payment of FMEP Debts;
News:  Houle, Francois / University of Ottawa:  Canada's Speech Crime Laws
Issues:  Coulter, Ann:  Freedom of Speech, Freedom of Assembly;
Issues:  Paul, Ron;
Issues:  "Hate Crime" Thought Police, Tyranny of Human Rights Tribunals;
News:  Robinson,
Svend  NDP MP, Lawyer & Thief for "Hate Crimes" Legislation;
Issues:  "Special Prosecutors"  for Lawyers & Judges;

Bill Graham, Pedophile Parliamentarian & Defense Minister


Bill Graham, mp - Google Search;
Bill Graham, mp - Google Video

Lawrence Metherel - Google Search

2007-06-19  Liberal MP Bill Graham announces resignation

"In spite of credible revelations dating back to April 2002 about Bill Graham, a sex addicted bi-sexual sodomizing a 15 year old male prostitute named Lawrence Metherel, Paul Martin allowed Graham to remain Canada’s Foreign Affairs Minister - and eventually named him to the portfolio of Minister of Defense.

"On Sept. 28/2005 a vote was held in Parliament to raise the age of consent from 14 (one of the lowest age of consents in the world) to 16 (an age which many still consider too low).

"Bill Graham, Paul Martin, and Anne McLellan, on Sept. 28th, voted against raising the age of consent to 16

More:  News:  Graham, Bill:  Pedophile Parliamentarian, Defense Minister

Common Law Perverted by Activist Judges and Legal Oligarchy

Chapter VII. The English Common Law. Section 57. The Norman Conquest

A beautiy of British  Common Law is that it is STATIC, and NOT DYNAMIC as these Activist Judges would have you think.

Ask a lawyer what "Common Law" is and they will likely tell you it is "Judge Made Law", and expand up this to say "Common Law is whatever the Judges are commonly saying these days"

This is completely FALSE.  The Judges are Agents of the Crown and they BY DEFINITION Judges are WITHOUT CAPACITY to make any law whatsoever.  Since 1649, only PARLIAMENT has the Capacity to make Law.

British Common law was NOT created by Judges, it was only observed and documented by individuals sent out by the newly Norman Crown after the Norman Conquest of 1066  to observe and codify the laws and customs of the various peoples of Britain..  This was done with a view to aggregate existing customs which may vary across the land,  into a unified body of Laws.  The Authority quoted by the Commoners in their administration of Common Law were frequently direct quotations from the Bible and principles of Danelaw

The process of documentation took only a couple of hundred years, and the product was a STATIC body of Law which was historical, popular, and has served in the intervening centuries as a Benchmark against which Statutory Law may be measured for "Fairness".  It does NOT change.

More:   Issues:  Common Law Perverted by Activist Judges and Legal Oligarchy;
Issues:  "Judicial Interpretation" to pervert Statutes of Parliament;
Issues:  Judicial Activism is Breach of Trust;
Issues:  Judicial Globalization is Treason

Debtor's Prison, abolished in 1869 in the UK, reinstituted to appease "Femi-Nazis"

Debtor's Prison - Google Search;
Debtors Prison - Google Video;
Debtors Prison abolished - Google Search

The common practice in BC Courts when Fathers do not pay Child Support - which most of the time is merely Imputed - is to send non-paying Father to Prison until he or his family members pay the fees imposed by the Judge. 

1869-xx-xx Debtors Act 1869 (c.62), United Kingdom

Even when mothers agree that Child Support should no longer be paid, we find that the Family Enforcement agencies, which are private contractors functioning as Bounty Hunters, typically refuse to end their claim on the father's income,.

More:  Issues:  Debtors's Prison Reinstituted;
Issues:  Passports Removed to Appease Femi-Nazis;
Issues:  Driver's Licenses removed to appease "Femi-Nazis";
Testimonials:  Jeffery, Hal & Danica;
Issues:  Imputed income;
Issues:  Child Support Fraud;

Barbara Kay, National Post

Barbara Kay - Google Search;
Barbara Kay - Google Video

"In Ontario alone, the names Cornwall, Prescott, and London became synonymous with "respectable" pedophile rings -- lawyers, doctors, police officers and Catholic clergymen -- that for decades preyed on society's most vulnerable boys."

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2007-09-26 Forgetting the male victims of child abuse, Barbara Kay

2006-06-14  Welcome to the matriarchy, Barbara Kay;


More.... Issues:  Barbara Kay,  National Post;
Testimonials:  Prior, Byron: Sexual Abuse;
News:  Mount Cashel Orphanage, St. John's NL;
Issues:  Boys Of St. Vincent <Mount Cashel, NL>
News: Southin, Mary: BC Judge backs Pedophilia, Solicitation of Children for Sexual Activities;
News:  Ramsay, Judge David BC Judge & Pedophile
News:  Orr, Judge David:  Protection of Pedophiles in Public Service;
News:  Hickman, T. Alex, NL Judge, alleged Pedophile & Town Tyrant
Testimonials:   Earle, Shane: Mount Cashel Orphange, NL;
Testimonials: Samson, Pierre:  Duplessis Orphans, QU
News:  Duplessis Orphans:  Nazi Experiments Orphange, NL
Issues: Child Trafficking by Public Officers & Judges;
Issues:  Judicial Freemasonry
Issues:  Judicial Interpretation;
News:  Crowley, Aleister:  Luciferian Freemasonry, Homosexual Pedophilia & Pederasty;

 Philip Mayfield, Cariboo - Chilcotin

We also wish to thank retired MP Philip Mayfeild,  Cariboo - Childotin for his work in the Joint Committee.

Recovered pages of EPG website

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Rights of fathers Ignored?
Both Parents Vita, Lynn Bentz
Broken Homes Mean Bleak Future
Fatherneed
Perception vs Reality
"For the Sake of the Children"
Some Facts on Families



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Equal Parenting Anonymous, "EPA" 

There are no Membership Fees in EPA.  Cloning ourselves from our granddaddy group AA, Equal Parenting Anonymous (EPA) is firmly "unorganized"  and is not affiliated with any outside cause or Political Action group.  EPA Members are not restrained from political activities outside of the EPA.   Within an EPA Meeting, however, accepting the Family Law Industry "as it is",   EPA's focus is defensive, focusing on unpaid Sponsorship of our Members, and Peer Support  for assisting Sponsees in their personal battle for Equal Parenting.  There is no Fees in EPA other than a Sponsee "Carry the Message of Equal Parenting to the NCP,  Grandparent, and Sole Custody child who still suffers."

We are developing an "Oral Tradition" of "Wisdom, Strength & Hope"   to pass on to new EPA Parents, Grandparents and their Children to strengthen & guard them against the ravages of the Family Law Industry

In EPA, Step Parents have no inherent parenting rights.  What parenting rights they possess are lent them by their Natural-Parent-Spouse or assigned to them by Consent by the Natural Parent/s. 

In EPA a Natural Grandparent is encouraged to stand as an Equal Parent in a Proceeding if a Natural Parent is indisposed.  (We recommend Natural Grandparents and their children stand as Co-Defendants with the harassed Natural Parent in any Sole Custody Petition. )  Our objective in EPA through individual Sponsorship of Natural Parents and Natural Grandparents is to eliminate an outcome of Sole Custody or unequal Shared Parenting in Family Court.  (Can you participate as a Sponsor????)

In EPA, the emphasis is on the Twelve Traditions rather than the Twelve Steps.  In EPA, the "Steps" boil down essentially to get out of "Denial" and  to realize that "Innocence is no Defense" in BC's Family Courts and it is a matter of emotional and financial survival that one makes a "Paradigm Shift"  if one is to survive the rapacious plundering of a Natural Family's physical and emotional resources.  We now recognize the Activist Judges and the BC Family Courts in particular are Fabian Socialists and they function with little to discriminate them from the Inquisitors  or Hitler's SS.    For more, see Fathers for Life.

For expediency, we in "EPA" simply borrow and rework the methods developed by AA.  This is an unfolding process.  It is of great encouragement to note that in it's brief history of 80 years or so, AA has become a worldwide phenomena and if you want to get to a AA Meeting tonight, you can probably call AA in your town, and find a Meeting and an AA Sponsor near you. 

Our hope is that EPA will follow a parallel path of development and form a real obstacle to Fabian Socialism .

Anonymity is a mandatory element in all EPA  Meetings: 

Like other "Recovery" groups, Meetings may be "Open" or "Closed".  Meetings may patterned as an EPA-Teen (for the Children of NCPs), or they may be patterned as an EPAnon Meeting (for the spouses and parents of the NCP). For help in "How to" have a Meeting, see  EPA Meeting Formats

Two Little Boys - Rolf Harris

Two Little Boys - Rolf Harris

More:  About "Equal Parenting", our response to SOW's deception & defeat of the Joint Committee;
About:  Equal Pparenting Anonymous
About: Equal Parenting Trek;
About:  Equal Parenting How To's:  Three Layer Cake;
About: EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;:
Meetup:  Equal Parenting Trek;
Meetup:  Equal Parenting - BC;

Adult Children of Alcoholics: a model for NCPs & children in EP Anonymous and EPA-Teen

Even after you have accomplished your Equal Parenting Agreement,   Depending on how long and traumatic it was for you to regain your children, we think it will be advisable if not mandatory for you and your children to "Keep Coming Back" to your EPA Meetings.  If you or your children are still suffering from Parental Alienation Syndrome after a long spell of separation, we expect you will really need the long term peer support of your EPA Group.

 

The <ACoA> Problem: an Analogy for Mono-Parental Children and their NCPs

"Many of us found that we had several characteristics in common as a result of being brought up in an alcoholic <Mono-Parental> or other dysfunctional households.

We had come to feel isolated, and uneasy with other people, especially authority figures. To protect ourselves, we became people pleasers, even though we lost our own identities in the process. All the same we would mistake any personal criticism as a threat.

We either became alcoholics <Mono-Parentalists> ourselves, married them, or both. Failing that, we found other compulsive personalities, such as a workaholic, to fulfill our sick need for abandonment.



We lived live from the standpoint of victims. Having an over developed sense of responsibility, we preferred to be concerned with others rather than ourselves. We got guilt feelings when we trusted ourselves, giving in to others. We became reactors rather than actors, letting others take the initiative.

We were dependent personalities, terrified of abandonment, willing to do almost anything to hold on to a relationship in order not to be abandoned emotionally. We keep choosing insecure relationships because they matched our childhood relationship with alcoholic <Mono-Parentalist> or dysfunctional parents.

These symptoms of the family disease of alcoholism <Mono-Parentalism> or other dysfunction made us 'co-victims', those who take on the characteristics of the disease without necessarily ever taking a drink. We learned to keep our feelings down as children and keep them buried as adults. As a result of this conditioning, we often confused love with pity, tending to love those we could rescue.

Even more self-defeating, we became addicted to excitement in all our affairs, preferring constant upset to workable solutions.

This is a description, not an indictment."

The <ACoA> Problem

AA Structure, a pattern for Equal Parenting Anonymous (EPA) groups

About Equal Parenting Anonymous
Equal Parenting Anonymous (EPA) Meeting Formats

What do you think? Lots of pros to the Recovery model. We can pick and choose what components map directly into our "Program of Recovery" which we will be developing organically during the Equal Parenting Trek.  See also Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACOA) for a more analogous Recovery Program.  For sheer Growth, permanence and ubiquity, it's hard to beat "AA".  How can a group with no "Leadership" be so effective?

  • Always un-organized (no legal entity to sue)

  • Meetings for peer-counseling available pretty well anywhere.

  • Bottom – up power structure. Participation is always by popular consent.  Deep penetration as a result.

  • Deliberate emotional positioning of “Serenity” and “changing the things we can” to avoid going berserk or suicidal. Remedy to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

  • Familiar to LOTS of people in “Recovery” and readily adopted by them for quick growth of new groups. Deciding to “not drink” is probably a good idea anyways, to get energies focused on what you can do something about.  Instead, get yourself to a MEETING and at nighttime, practice Prayer & Deep Muscle Relaxation.  Once the sun goes down, begin relaxing...."Work while it is yet Day, because the Night comes when no man can work."  Let the Adrenaline work FOR you, and get you doing something of Service for the EP Fellowship, rather than grind away your physical and mental health..  Like any Cult Leader, these "Mind Control" Perpetrators know exactly what they are doing to Canadian Families.  Learn to manage your emotions, practice Serenity to  fight Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).  Family Courts and the Liberal Party's objective of eliminating Parental Rights, is truly a "War against the Family".

  • Designed to reproduce and replicate.

  • Proven track record of worldwide propagation

The Structure of Alcoholics Anonymous, a pattern for us to follow?

AA's Non-Organization

Australian AA Service Manual, Sixth Edition - 2005

AA Structure of the Conference

AA Structure, a pattern for Equal Parenting Anonymous (EPA) groups

About Equal Parenting Anonymous

What do you think? Lots of pros to this model. We can pick and choose what components map directly into what we are trying to do.  How can a group with no "Leadership" be so effective?

  • Always un-organized (no legal entity to sue)
  • Meetings for peer-counseling available pretty well anywhere.
  • Bottom – up power structure. Participation is always by popular consent.  Deep penetration as a result.
  • Deliberate emotional positioning of “Serenity” and “changing the things we can” to avoid going berserk or suicidal. Remedy to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
  • Familiar to LOTS of people in “Recovery” and readily adopted by them for quick growth of new groups. Deciding to “not drink” is probably a good idea anyways, to get energies focused on what you can do something about.  Instead, get yourself to a MEETING and at nighttime, practice Prayer & Deep Muscle Relaxation.  Let the Adrenaline work FOR you, and the Fellowship, rather than destroy your physical and mental health..  These "Mind Control" types know exactly what they are doing, and do it intentionally.  Learn to manage your emotions, practice Serenity, and fight Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).  Family Courts and the Liberal Party's objective of eliminating Parental Rights, is truly a "War against the Family".
  • Designed to reproduce and replicate.
  • Proven track record of worldwide propagation

The Structure of Alcoholics Anonymous, a pattern for us to follow?

AA's Non-Organization

Australian AA Service Manual, Sixth Edition - 2005

AA Structure of the Conference

Twelve Steps of EPA

There really isn't the usual "Step Program" in EPA other than "Getting out of Denial" and trying to develop a Gracious manner and Inner Man with which to endure these Trials.  EPA has greatly benefitted from the Recovery Movements experience in living with Trauma and ongoing Abuse.  We seem to retain many familiar ideas from the "Step" programs to help us face our Enemies with a clear eye and modicum of Serenity, but do so without a formal series of "Steps".

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is clearly a hazard of any Natural Parent and children enduring an extended exposure to Canada's Family Court systems.  Our desire is to provide early in the game a "Safe Place" to work together to reunify our Families while trying to reduce the psychological harm being perpetrated the Divorce Industry.  For those already damaged by the Industry's Psych-Ops, this provides a means of un-doing the de-humanizing impact of being a Father or Child exposed to their attacks.

If will need to find a Group and a Sponsor/s before delving too deeply into this.  There is a secondary industry to the Divorce Industry  capitalizing on our distresses providing "counseling" services.  Typically these have grown out of some good things, but by feminizing them, they have become femi-centric and femi-narcisistic.  The tip-off of femi-narcisism is the double standards, double-talk, and the perverted vocabulary developed to support their outright Hatred of fathers and the Nuclear Family.  These are components of the Divorce Industry intending to break you down and become compliant to their Agenda.  We would save you that.  We want you to get the good, unadulterated recovery material.  For that you need a Group and a Sponsor.

A Twelve Step program for EP is not yet available.  This is not a big problem, because the Recovery movement is so generic and adaptable for any victim of abuse.  Try this Google: Recover, Twelve-Step for starters, This will move you, hopefully with your children in tow, towards new emotional and physical freedoms in Recovery.

The Twelve Traditions of Equal Parenting Anonymous (EPA)

The major obstacles which limit a groups' success are:

For a Support / Recovery Group method, it's hard to beat the Twelve Traditions that have developed over decades, providing help and "Recovery" to millions of "Dependents" and their "Co-Dependents", Rape victims, Incest victims, and so on. (Many of you, having been badly beaten and blamed for your beatings,  will recognize immediately the parallels!)   Don't feel compelled to follow the Twelve Traditions in your Group, but they will probably keep you out of a lot of trouble if you do.

Twelve Traditions of Equal Parenting Anonymous (Draft)

  1. Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon EPA unity.

  2. For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority—a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not govern.

  3. The only requirement for EPA membership is a desire for Equal Parenting of both Natural Parents.

  4. Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or EPA as a whole.

  5. Each group has but one primary purpose—to carry its Message to the disenfranchised Natural Parent and Grandparent who still suffers.

  6. An EPA group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the EPA. name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.

  7. Every EPA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.

  8. Equal Parenting Anonymous should remain forever nonprofessional, but our service centers may employ special workers.

  9. EPA as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve.

  10. Equal Parenting Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the EPA name ought never be drawn into public controversy.

  11. Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films.

  12. Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place Principles before personalities.

The Twelve Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous  (Short Form)

  1. Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon A.A. unity.

  2. For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority—a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not govern.

  3. The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking.

  4. Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or A.A. as a whole.

  5. Each group has but one primary purpose—to carry its message to the alcoholic who still suffers.

  6. An A.A. group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the A.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.

  7. Every A.A. group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.

  8. Alcoholics Anonymous should remain forever nonprofessional, but our service centers may employ special workers.

  9. A.A., as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve.

  10. Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn into public controversy.

  11. Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, and films.

  12. Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities.

If you are new to support groups, EqualParenting-BC.ca suggests you simply borrow from the Recovery Movement's Twelve Traditions  to get you going.  If things evolve, we can figure an adapted wording for EPers.   Here are some examples.

 

 

EPA = Equal Parenting Anonymous

Confidential Meetings for Natural Parents & Grandparents' Peer Support

"God, Grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the Courage to change the things I can, and the Wisdom to know the difference."

EPA Meetings are now managed using the Meetup meeting and messaging tools.  Leave a Note at:  Equal Parenting-BC if you wish, with your phone number or Skype ID and we will try to call you to get you into a Group near you. 

Spouses welcome at "Open Meetings", but NCPs only at "Closed Meetings", please.

More:  About:  Equal Parenting Anonymous;
About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
About: EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
Meetings:  EP Trek Generic Calendar

Equal Parenting How To's 

Equal Parenting is like a Three Layer Cake. 

Without Cause or Consent, no Child shall be removed from a Natural Parent!!!

1.  The Bottom Layer:  The Initial Equal Parenting Agreement

Initial Equal Parenting Agreement creating full time, all time equality of both natural parents, subordinate to no third parties (a Constitutional right ignored by most Family Courts); a series of tentative Parenting Timetables for each year and statement of intent, or  "Wishes"; the requirement that the tentative Parenting Timetable laid out there will be reviewed and finalized annually and incorporated into the Annual Parenting Supplement.  Parental authority and discretion is always equal and unaffected by inequalities of Parenting Time allocations.

2.  Middle Layer:  The Annual Supplement

Yearly Annual Parenting Supplements for planning the school year and finalizing the Parenting Timetable for the upcoming  parenting year.  Parenting Timetable must meet the test for equality established in 1) the initial Equal Parenting Agreement.

3.  Top Layer:  Autonomy of Both Equal Parents on all matters not previously Constrained.

Parenting Timetable alternates all residual parenting questions between the two otherwise equal parents who are subordinate to no third parties.  Full autonomy of each parent during their Parenting Time as allotted in the agreed Parenting Timetable on all residual parenting questions not previously constrained by Covenants in the initial Equal Parenting Agreement, or the current Annual Parenting Supplement.  Full discretion on residual parenting with the Timetabled Parent, but flexibility encouraged and provided by Ad Hoc Agreements.

4.  Icing on the Cake.....

Forget about the Courts and your Ex, and go have fun with your kids!!!

More:  About:  Equal Parenting How To's:  Three Layer Cake;
About:  Grandparents in Equal Parenting;
About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
About: EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
EP Trek Generic Calendar:Issues:  Kinship Families or Grandparents raising Children::
About:  Grandparents in Equal Parenting

Equal Parenting Roundups for Natural Parents' Rights

An "Equal Parenting Roundup" is a gathering of all the disparate parental rights groups that are within driving distance of one another.  Whereas any group can call an "Ad Hoc" Roundup with their neihbors, we hope you will have at least one annual EP Roundup an incorporate it into the Equal Parenting Trek

An Equal Parenting Roundup is an exercise in your Freedom of Assembly and Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Assembly, following some of the traditions that established our Supremacy of Parliament.  Ideally, you will want be evangelical about your Roundup, you can add to it's end a Free Man's March

More:  About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
About: EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
Meetings:  EP Trek Generic Calendar

 

 

 


     
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