"Honourable senators know that I have studied a terrible and pernicious
heart of darkness that has developed in our court system, being the use
of
FALSE ACCUSATIONS in civil justice.
This is
the mischief of litigating parties, usually mothers, suddenly within the
context of divorce and within child custody proceedings falsely accusing
the other party, usually fathers, of the sexual abuse of their own
children. ,,,
These
FALSE ALLEGATIONS are often made with the overt or covert complicity
of their lawyers. They are a lethal weapon in the business of parental
alienation. They are a tool for achieving sole custody of children and
creating fatherlessness."
We are also fortunate to haveJay Hill, MP(Prince George – Peace River) here in British Columbia.
“I’m
pushing for equality —both parents should have equal rights and equal
access to their child,”
Hill said. “The courts
seem to start from the premise that somehow fathers aren’t responsible
parents. But both parents are deemed good parents as long as the
marriage lasts; why are they not when the marriage ends?”
We are fortunate in British Columbia to have a
number of pro-family parliamentarians. Of particular
prominence is Paul Forseth,
M.P. - member of the "For the Sake of the Children"
Committee, co-author of the
Dissenting Opinions, and a staunch advocate of pro-family
concerns. Paul has put in many years pushing to have Equal
Parenting issues brought forward to the Canadian Parliament, and
faced fierce opposition from the Prime Minister. Both
Paul and Senator Cools have pressed on to redeem fathers from groups
like the Status of Women (SOW) enduring multiple death
threats from various radical feminist groups while serving on the
Committee. These MPs are tough.
Monday Nov.7th 2005 Dear Equal
Parenting-BC: "Conservatives are committed to
Shared Parenting. The national party “Policy Declaration” that was
passed by delegates at our March 2005 Montreal convention says
clearly that: 65. Shared Parenting: A
Conservative Government will make the necessary changes to the
Divorce Act to ensure that in the event of a marital breakdown, the
Divorce Act will allow both parents and all grandparents to maintain
a meaningful relationship with their children and grandchildren,
unless it is clearly demonstrated not to be in the best interests of
the children.
My Liberal colleagues that served with me on
the Senate-Commons committee that wrote the “For
the Sake of the Children report, admitted that they have
little confidence that their Party will ever enact the needed
amendments to the Divorce Act, that completely fulfills the report
recommendations. The NDP opposed us during the Committee process,
and have never been supportive of dads.
Conservatives are the only hope for fairness
and reasonableness in Divorce and Family Law. I encourage those who
care, to focus their energy where it will help the most, by working
to elect as many Conservatives as possible. I hope that the many who
are frustrated, not become sidetracked into protest, which does
nothing during an election but undercut our ability to make good
things happen. The Liberals and the NDP will say anything in an
election to get a vote, but they will never deliver “shared
parenting”. Every vote that does not go to a Conservative in the
next election is a vote against “shared parenting”.
Paul Forseth MP
Although not from British Columbia, and less familiar
to us, we cannot neglect to recognize the solid support of once Liberal
MP, Rodger Gallaway of
Sarnia. Gallaway and Cools were frequently photographed together
while championing the rights of children to both
NATURAL PARENTS.
EqualParenting-BC
invites websites in other Provinces and States to create
collaborative web-pages and link with us when they share our
purpose of making available to those that need them any day of
the week MEETINGS,
within driving distance of the alienated parent who still
suffers.
If
you find yourself a
Spouse of a Survivor (SOS) and they have never
"Broken the Silence" until now, your chances of keeping
your marriage together are extremely low. In spite of
the all the hatred, false accusations, verbal
and physical verbal abuse your spouse
lays on you, it very
well may be that these are all a cry for assurance that you
love them, will not leave them. On the other hand,
your un-Recovered Spouse may be a perpetrating
Psychopath also and be looking for a Victim of their
own. The trick for you as an
SOS is to remain faithful to your marriage without
becoming a Victim yourself. Our hope for you is that you two
can overcome the Lies of the Enemy, and redeem your life
together, finding pleasure instead of pain in the call of
the "SOS"
"Spouses Of Survivors" (SOS) &
"Partners in Healing"
(PIH) are Recovery
Groups for spouses of sexual abuse Victims & Survivors. They are open to
both men and women. The impact of sexual abuse on victims and their
spouses is little affected by the victims' gender. The incidence of sexual
abuse of girls is only mildly greater than sexual abuse of boys, but the boys
are almost entirely ignored in publicly funded programs. The primary
perpetrators of sexual abuse of children are Step-Parents, Teachers, Social
Workers, Day-Care Workers, Foster Homes, Church & Sports Leaders, etc.
The
group that poses the Greatest Risk of sexual abuse is the
STEP-PARENTS and the
STEP-FAMILY
members.
In contrast,
NATURAL PARENTS have extremely LOW rates of sexual
abuse, emphasizing the crucial need for
Equal Parenting after divorce.. The remedy of Sexual Abuse must
be immediate and vindicating for the Victim if the consequences are to be
inconsequential. The power of the Perpetrator is the Lie and the Silence,
which is commonly kept in place even when the Victim marries.
The failure
rate of these marriages is over 95%. The remedy is
Breaking the Silence, of
course. We regret to inform you however, that the
prognosis is very gloomy if the silence has never been broken, and the risk to
your children is extreme. A history of unmitigated sexual
abuse is often ignored by the Divorce Industry. Contact us, and we will
get you at Temporary Sponsor who is either sexual abuse Survivor or a spouse of
a sexual abuse victim.
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rights such as the freedom of expression, but does not by association or
reference to other materials condone or sanction violence or hatred.
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