"Natural
Parents have NO RIGHTS.... ONLY RESPONSIBILITIES....
"Natural
Parents' Rights now gone with my Homosexual Marriage
bill"
16.10 Maximum Contact & Friendly Parent Rule has to go to
conform
to Judicial Practice, or Judges may be held in criminal
BREACH OF TRUST"
FYI,
the ideas that the State assigns
Rights &
Responsibilities to it's Citizen is straight from
pre-war Nazi Germany. Under the British system
rights are not State-given, but God Given.
Buying into the Court's position that what
rights remain are Children's Rights, is buying into the same
position that "<Natural> Parents have no rights", and
Canadian Children are at birth the property of the Courts.
In
"Women and the Process of Constitutional Reform"
McLellan warns that <Horrors!>
"Provincial
Legislatures may impose a presumption of Joint Custody...
and perpetuate the domination of men over women"
Ask a lawyer what "Common Law" is and
they will likely tell you it is
"Judge Made Law", and expand up this to say
"Common Law is whatever the Judges are commonly saying these
days".
This is completely FALSE. The Judges
are Agents of the Crown and they BY DEFINITION Judges are WITHOUT
CAPACITY to make any law whatsoever. Since
1649, only
PARLIAMENT has the Capacity to make Law.
British Common law was NOT created by Judges, it was
only observed and documented by individuals sent out by the
newly Norman Crown after the
Norman Conquest of 1066 to observe and codify the
laws and customs of the various peoples of Britain..
This was done with a view to aggregate existing customs
which may vary across the land, into a unified body of
Laws. The Authority quoted by the Commoners in their
administration of
Common Law were frequently direct quotations from the
Bible and
principles of
Danelaw
The process of documentation took only a
couple of hundred years, and the product was a STATIC body
of Law which was historical, popular, and has served in the
intervening centuries as a Benchmark against which
Statutory Law may be measured for "Fairness".
It does NOT change.
Instead their position to promote the
"rights" of a "Parent" in the widest sense of the
word, making NO distinction between
NATURAL PARENTS and
wannaabe
Legal Parents. They have bowed to
University of
Victoria's assertion that the SCC's
Trociuk
Decision
"endorses a Heterosexual View of the Family and must be
ignored", legitimizing the ongoing
Child
Trafficking by the State which views
Canadian
children as State Property and merchandise for sale in
the lucrative Child
Adoption Market They refuse to be hampered by prior
obligations to that pesky Natural Parent who thinks they can
Veto an Adoption.
It appears that many
"Fathers Rights" groups commonly fall in with the United
Nations and Liberal
Irwin Cotler's assertion that the
Child's Right is to be protected, but the Natural Parent
has "NO RIGHTS",
making the State, not the Natural
Parents the Protector of the Child..
Without Cause or
Consent, no Child shall be removed from a Natural Parent!!!
"In spite of credible revelations dating back to April 2002
about Bill Graham, a sex addicted bi-sexual sodomizing a 15
year old male prostitute named
Lawrence Metherel,
Paul Martin allowed Graham to remain
Canada’s Foreign Affairs Minister - and eventually named
him to the portfolio of Minister of Defense.
"On Sept. 28/2005 a vote was held in Parliament to raise the
age of consent from 14 (one of the lowest age of consents in
the world) to 16 (an age which many still consider too low).
"Bill Graham, Paul Martin, and Anne McLellan, on Sept. 28th,
voted against raising the age of consent to 16
"The Family Courts
are <generally> a bunch of second rate hangers-on
... build each other's businesses through
referrals...Family Law is a <parasitic> self-sustaining
Industry"
Habeas
Corpus : "literally, "you
may have the body". A Habeas
Corpus is a legal writ that protects an individual against arbitrary
imprisonment by requiring that any person arrested be brought before
a court for formal charge. If the charge is considered to be valid,
the person must submit to trial; if not, the person goes free. When
the law is suspended, then individuals can be imprisoned
indefinitely and without charge."
.....
Skeletons in the Closet, a film drawn from the dramatized lives
of families living with a protected
Pedophile and the mental
illness it may create when a loving, faithful, Victim keeps the
Secret. This is shockingly
common. The Secret is their Power -
BREAK IT!
(You would be well advised to stay away from the Public Servant.)
Forgiveness is NOT Compulsory,
Compulsory Unconditional Forgiveness is the Second Victimization
"Listen,
you priests, to this warning .. I will
spread on your faces the excrement of
these animals you offer me, ...
where the excrement goes will I send
you!" Malachi, ~ 430
BC
One Adult Survivor's
story of Confronting a Church Pedophile.
Watch in OnLine. All victims
of institutionalized Evil can learn to
confront their Perps learning from
examples like this Sexual Abuse victim's
story. This author suggests we follow a
similar pattern with this these
Judges,
Social Workers, and
Teachers who displace parents and
horribly abuse parents and their
children. First
you must recognize their Lies that "You must Forgive",
"Anger is a Sin" you
must
"Turn the other Cheek
(and look the other way); you must
put it "under the Blood (under the Rug)"; that "God put us in
Authority over you ..
(oppose Us, you oppose God)" "If you don't Forgive
(and keep
your mouth shut), God won't
Forgive you". Use their
own book of
Authority to confront them on their
Lies: You will quickly find..
"Blessed
be the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so
that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the
comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."
Paul of Tarsus, (II Corinthians 1) ~ 57 AD
It is truly incredible what these "Men of
God" claim to be "Biblical" or "Christian".
Sadly Churches, supposedly a Refuge for the
wounded, regularly become a
"Den of Thieves and Robbers". The
"Money Changers" have become the "Book
Sellers".
1
And he said to his disciples, "Temptations
to sin are
sure to come, but woe to the one through
whom they come! 2
It would be better for him if a millstone
were hung around his neck and he were cast
into the sea than that he should cause one
of these little ones to sin. 3
Pay attention to yourselves!
If your
brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents,
forgive him, 4
and if
he sins against you seven times in the day,
and turns to you seven times, saying, 'I
repent,' you must forgive him."
Luke 17 (ESV)
7
"Woe to the world for
temptations to sin!
For it is necessary that temptations
come, but woe to the one by whom the
temptation comes! ....
15
"If
your brother sins against you go and
tell him his fault,
between you and him alone. If he
listens to you, you have gained your
brother. 16
But if he does not listen, take one
or two others along with you, that
every
charge may be established by the
evidence of two or three witnesses.
...
21
Then
Peter came up and said to him,
"Lord, how often will my brother sin
against me, and I forgive him? As
many as seven times?" 22
Jesus said to him, "I do not say to
you seven times, but seventy times
seven!
23 "Therefore
the kingdom of heaven may be
compared to a king who wished to
settle accounts with his servants.
24 When he began to settle,
one was brought to him who owed him
ten thousand talents 25 And since he
could not pay, his master ordered
him to be sold, with his wife and
children and all that he had, and
payment to be made. 26 So the
servant fell on his knees, imploring
him,
'Have
patience with me, and I will pay you
everything.'
27 And out of pity for
him, the master of that servant
released him and forgave him the
debt.
28 But when
that same servant went out, he found
one of his fellow servants who owed
him a hundred denarii, and
seizing him, he began to choke him,
saying, 'Pay what you owe.' 29
So his fellow servant fell down and
pleaded with him,
'Have patience with me, and I will
pay you.' 30 He refused
and went and put him in prison until
he should pay the debt. 31
When his fellow servants saw what
had taken place, they were greatly
distressed, and they went and
reported to their master all that
had taken place. 32 Then his
master summoned him and said to him,
'You
wicked servant! I forgave you all
that debt because you pleaded with
me. 33 And should not you have had
mercy on your fellow servant, as I
had mercy on you?'
34 And
in anger his master
delivered him to the jailers, until
he should pay all his debt. 35
So also my heavenly Father will do
to every one of you, if you do not
forgive your brother from your
heart."
Matthew 18 (ESV)
No
wonder Pedophiles love to hang out in
Churches!!! Dobson & Co,'s
"Garbage In, Garbage Out" (GIGO)
products pervert Biblical vocabulary, pervert
the
Rights of the Afflicted, protect the Perps,
distract Victims from seeking remedies for their
losses, and burden already tormented victims of
rape and
sexual
abuse by
"Blaming the Victim" and sending them on an
inner quest of SELF-scrutiny trapping the Victim
into a decent into various
Dissociative Disorders,
Compulsive Lying,
"Passive" Aggression, & deeper
Mental Illness like
Multiple Personality Disorder (MPD).
We are pleased to tell you however, having
scrutinized Dobson's references to the Bible,
that these
views
are far from "Biblical" and are in fact a
malicious compilation of Half-Truths carefully
selected and arranged to teach an ANTI-Biblical
position that precludes the Biblical pursuit of
Vindication and
Restoration of losses either by the Victim
themselves or by their Appointee, the "Kinsman
Redeemer". In the event of a
Victim's incapacitation, the Bible teaches
that a
Kinsmen Redeemer was to pursue the
prescribed rightful remedies against all wrongs
on the Victim's behalf.
"Listen,
you priests, to this warning .. I will
spread on your faces the excrement of
these animals you offer me, ...
where the excrement goes will I send
you!"
Malachi, ~ 430 BC
Bill Gothard's Doctrine on "Guarding against the DEFILEMENT
of LISTENING to an Evil Report" Protects Pedophiles
"You must not tell your family what we talked about here at IBYC
seminars, or let anyone but our Alumni see our printed materials"
"The reason why Families
are failing is because men have failed to assume God's role of Spiritual
Leadership in their Families"
"Former" Roman Catholic, Bill Gothard's teachings are still being taught
as "Biblical" by his Mentee
Gary Smalley
at Promise Keepers and
Women of Faith conferences where men
and women- no matter what their age - are still being separated
and indoctrinated separately. Gothard has never married, but is a
self-professed "Family & Relationships Expert"
"Twenty years
after sexually attacking
Liz Seccuro while both were
students at the
University of Virginia in
Charlottesville,
William Beebe -- a recovering
alcoholic who had wrestled for years
with whether making amends would
further injure
Seccuro-- sent her
a letter of apology. Via e-mail, the
Associated Press reported, Beebe
acknowledged to
Seccuro
that he had raped her.
She responded by contacting
authorities in Charlottesville and
in Las Vegas, where Beebe lived.
Beebe was arrested. In spite of his
e-mail confession, <his
lawyer>
denied the rape, but eventually he
pled guilty to a lesser charge of
aggravated sexual battery. The plea
is believed to be in exchange for
Beebe's cooperation with an
investigation of others involved in
the attack. Sentencing is scheduled
for March 15.
Dateline asks the following
question, which demand, we think, the
following answers.
Was Beebe
right, after 20 years, to contact
Seccuro to apologize?
YES!!!!!
Or did his
effort to
make amends lead to greater harm?
NO!!! It was the beginning of
her Vindication, and
a quantum leap in her Recovery
Was
Seccuro right to press charges
after so long and in the face of obvious
remorse?
Yes, to prove (i.e.. Test
/ Exercise / Strengthen)
Beebe's Repentance.
Is it possible
to forgive and to demand justice at the
same time?". No,
Forgiving IS Forgetting.
Forgiveness IS Reconciliation.
Meanwhile the Victim can - and probably
should - pursue Vindication and
extend or withdraw
GRACE (unmerited favour) until the
Fruits of Repentance are born by the
Offender (eg.
Luke 3:7-14 ) Once Vindicated and
Recompensed, the Victim can - and
probably should - Forgive,
"seventy times seven". (eg
Luke 17:3-4 and
Matt 18:21-35 )
Compulsory Forgiveness is routinely taught in some Churches,
the effect of which is to keep Victims of Sexual Abuse quite, and to
"Keep the Secret". We will attempt to pull together more information
on why teachings of this sort been so destructive to Victims of Sexual
Abuse.
Dear Pastor
I am writing quickly about the topic of
“Forgiveness” about which you have preached twice. .. the overhead
in the Sermon said that “Forgiveness is NOT Reconciliation”. This is one
of a cluster of falsehoods and sloppy teaching popularized by various
authors, notably Neil Anderson, which is clearly anti-Biblical, and by
being anti-Biblical is highly destructive. Please note from your Parable
example (Matt 18), that the Small Debtor acknowledged his Debt and was
asking for more time to repay the Small Creditor / Large Debtor. Note
also that the King, the Large Creditor, who had formerly forgiven the
Large Debtor / Small Creditor, “un-forgave” the Large Debtor when he
discovered a condition of forgiveness, had not been met. He found the
Large Debtor / Small Creditor had not been also been merciful with the
Small Debtor in repayment of the small debt, nor had he forgiven the
Small Debtor of an unpayable debt. The injunctions following the Parable
to “forgive seventy times seven” is of course in the context of a
Creditor and his mercy or forgiveness with a repentant Debtor.
What I hope you will see is that the answer for what to do with an
Unrepentant Debtor is wrongly taught as “Forgiveness” in pulp
Christianity with terrible consequences. What should be taught is not
forgiveness, but “Grace”. It may be that it is necessary to teach both
Forgiveness and Grace (UNMERITED favor) together. Forgiveness IS
reconciliation. Grace invites reconciliation, but is NOT reconciliation.
For “Without
REPENTANCE there CAN BE NO FORGIVENESS”.
Supposing you would agree with me that we should forgive as God has
forgiven us, and we refer to the Bible for direction, the logic becomes
pretty simple. .. Lots of problems go away if we first rely
on the Bible, and fill in the gaps later with outside information. I’m
sure it’s not a lot of fun being a Preacher sometimes, but as such,
you wind up being the point of contact for people like myself, who have
witnessed the harm done by false teaching and feel obliged by James 3
and Jude to take issue with it. The Christian press, by the way,
commonly deters members from taking heed of James 3 and Jude, because
they have a vested interest in what I believe to be willful deceit.
James 3, of course is not about gossip against the Preacher, as they
would have you believe, but about the importance of scrutinizing the
Pulpit and its “tongue”, or “rudder”, the Preacher. How great a fire is
started by just a small flame! Jude is chastising churches for not
taking issue with the “false teachers” roaming about in our midst. Both
James & Jude were biological half-brothers of Jesus himself, and both
were very succinct and straightforward in their letters. If you want to
know what the Bible says, by the way, it would be good to stick to the
word for word translations like KJV, NASB, RSV, ESV, NKJ.
Perhaps the quickest way to provide a framework to work from is to
recapitulate what the Gospel IS before going into the Deceptions. The
Gospel is something like this: John the Baptist went about saying
“Repent and be Baptized for the Forgiveness of your Sins … Repent …. Be
Reconciled to God”, etc. Having acknowledged our culpability for Sin we
have a problem! We have a Debt so great we cannot possibly repay it. The
Good News is that God so loved us Debtors that he paid the Ransom of our
unpayable indebtedness himself, cancelling our Debt, telling us then to
“forgive others as he has forgiven us” (that is CONDITIONALLY!). Having
been forgiven, we are RECONCILED to God, even being adopted as “sons” by
virtue of the sufficiency of Jesus’ gift and becoming “Co-Heirs” with
Christ. It is clear, I think, that Forgiveness is CONDITIONAL on
repentance, and Forgiveness and Reconciliation are always concurrent. We
rejoice that we are Forgiven, and are now Reconciled. It is nonsensical
to rejoice that we are Forgiven, but have more to do before we are
Reconciled.
Unfortunately the teaching from Neil Anderson, Henry Cloud, & John
Townsend that Christians are to “Forgive” by ending relationships, and
then imposing “Consequences” while “forgiving” them has deeply
penetrated Church Culture. The Gospel is that by being
FORGIVEN by God, we are RECONCILED to God, and by being reconciled THERE
ARE NO CONSEQUENCES we must bear. We have been FORGIVEN. We are
RECONCILED without price. It is the free gift of God.
Anderson, Cloud & Townsend teach three perversions of the Good News I’ll
note here are:
Forgiveness is Compulsory (without the
condition of Repentance).
Forgiveness is not Reconciliation
Forgiveness imposes Consequences.
If Forgiveness is compulsory, there is no
separation of the sheep from the goats, or the Wheat from the Tares. God
is compelled to “forgive” and there will be no Judgment. All will be
Forgiven. The Unrepentant will live forever with the Repentant in God’s
New Creation.
If Forgiveness is not Reconciliation, then there
was no purpose in God’s pursuing Reconciliation with us, and providing
the “free gift” of his Son. Although God has “Forgiven” us, we are not
Reconciled to God, and we all Wheat, Tares, sheep, goats, whatever, are
barred from God’s presence until we complete our Reconciliation somehow,
and are otherwise doomed to the same fate of eternal isolation from the
One who has “Forgiven” us, but not reconciled with us.
If Forgiveness imposes Consequences, then Christ’s sufferings are
insufficient to forgive sin, and God’s “Free Gift” isn’t free at all. We
must “complete” Christ’s’ imperfect Gift by perfecting it with our own
suffering of the Consequences of our own Sin which will be imposed on us
by the God who “forgave us” but didn’t “reconcile” with us.
I hope you will understand what I’m trying to say here. The answers for
the question, “What does one do then if the Offender doesn’t Repent?” is
NOT found in “Forgiving” them as Anderson, Cloud and Townsend teach. The
answer is more properly found in the extension of GRACE to the
Unrepentant Debtor, and the unhappy acceptance of a broken relationship
which cannot reconciled unilaterally.
Yours, <Member>
Forgiveness is NOT Compulsory
Compulsory Unconditional
Forgiveness is the Second Victimization
"Listen, you priests, to this warning ..
I will spread on your faces the
excrement of these animals you offer me,
... where the excrement goes will
I send you!"
Malachi, ~ 430 BC
"If
a man will not submit the the Spiritual Authority God has placed
over him - thePastor -, his wife should leave him to break his
heart and hold his feet to the fire until he becomes Teachable
and Accountable to the Pastor."
What may surprise you is that
Saint Patrick was neither Irish, nor Catholic. He
was instead born to Christian parents in Britain during it's
Roman Occupation.
Having been captured and enslaved
by the head-hunting
Irish Celts as a youth,
Patrick was compelled in adulthood to return to
Ireland to confront the Druids
and preach the Good News of
God's free gift of
Reconciliation with God for those who will humble
themselves, and REPENT and BELIEVE in the sufficiency
of Christ's substitutionary death alone to be
"redeemed" from sin. Patrick went to Ireland ~
405 ADwith NO
consultation with
Rome, two generations before there was
even a Pope in Rome. The first Pope would not exist
until 457 AD, and in our view completes the corruption of
the Roman Church
Constantine hoped to avoid by abandoning the
"filth" of Rome and
building a NEW capital in
Constantinople .
Above is the Shrine of
St. Patrick's Bell.. Patrick used the Bell
to announce his arrival to preach the
Good
News. The Bell & Crook became Patrick's
emblems among the illiterate Celts.
Canada's only leadership camp for
"lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans-identified, two-spirited,
intersexed, queer, questioning and allied youth" made
its debut yesterday in B.C. With the
three-day event on an unnamed island in Howe Sound comes
a chance for the province's young "sexual minority" to
have their own space -- perhaps for the first time in
their lives.
"The youth can just be completely free to be themselves,
and they don't have to worry about some of the negative
consequences or . . . the stigma just associated with
expressing themselves," said
Rod Knight, the camp's B.C. director. Knight,
29, calls the camp a "social-health
and education intervention" for a group
that does not have enough community support.
Camp fYrefly was founded by university researchers
at the University of Alberta in 2004. ..."the camp is a chance to mentor young
people...
Everyone should celebrate themselves,"
Note that in Homosexual culture
"Celebration" commonly means heavy partying and orgies.
Note also that taking kids away from their familiar
surroundings and relationships and putting them in a
boot camp like
Camp fYrefly is the well-tested brainwashing
technique of numerous Cults at which they can impose a
Paradigm Shift.on
a Candidate.
This is a Judge practicing his sexual orientation for decades while
on the BC Bench.
It is inconceivable that the Law Enforcement
officers and other Judges were unaware of all his activities.
Law Enforcement Officers, are of course unable to act without the
support of the Judiciary.
Aleister Crowley instructed his followers to practice
Homosexual
Pedophilia and Pederasty to sustain and increase their Spiritual Powers
by thieving the life force of their Victims.
Judge Mary Southin is
reported to dress always in black, has
her Chambers painted black, and each
October 31, has various decorative
Black Candles.
Famous Quotes: "Fathers have no rights"....
"Society's attitudes toward child pornography may prove as
fleeting as views in an earlier age on homosexuality."
Lawyers consistently estimate the homosexual fraction of
the Law Societies & Judiciaries as "forty-something" percent.
That is, a randomly selected Judge or Lawyer is about thirty
times more likely to be homosexual than the population at large
".... she was wrapping up a self-funded
documentary that "named names" and exposed a very high-level,
child-pedophile ring.
That's enough to get anyone killed."
Former
Senator Nancy Schaefer and her husband Bruce have died from
a single shot wound each.
Nancy
was shot once in the back while she lay sleeping. Her husband
Bruce was shot once in the chest.
Both shots were
lethal.
Two shots, Two Kills
The deaths are being handled as
a 'murder-suicide'. More likely Bruce was shot
in the chest while confronting the Shooter having been woken by
the the shot that killed Nancy.
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