Pedophiles are very selective in the victims they choose.  They tend to avoid kids that have a Dad like the plague.  They want to find children alone, unsupervised, and lonely.  They are attracted to single moms with sole custody.

 The risk of coming under the "care" of a pedophile is increased hundreds of times when the mother has sole custody.  Not only are the kids out of Parental care for most of their young lives, but the pedophiles actively seek out opportunities to get physical custody of  kids from broken homes and into the sole care of single mothers.  The most powerful method of getting control of Children and Families is their selection of employer, and the obtaining extraordinary powers granted them through their workplace.  They know full well, the Civil Service will not prosecute it's members and will instead scapegoat an innocent bystander over which it has power. 

The most common class of sexual abusers  is the "Step Father" class.  The next most numerous class of pedophile are "Rigid Dogmatic" Class.  These choose careers working with and "protecting" and "caring" for your children, and possess unmitigated powers over children, even over the parents.   They routinely present themselves as a "Savior" for the fatherless child, and are Narcissistic in character.  They rely heavily on the incredulity of the children's family when hearing the child's report, and on being able to discred  the child to evade detection of their unthinkable backroom activities.   These are the military school and sports coaches, the church leaders, the teachers,  Social Workers., daycare providers, and Judges,.  They tend to be vain, charming, cunning, and socially dexterous.  In British Columbia, the pedophiles are well organized to establish their sexual orientation's "rights".  See NAMBLA (North American Man Boy Love Association) with strong connections here in Vancouver,  Butterfly Kisses, and NAWGLA The North American Woman-Girl Love Association NAMBLA's sister group. 

With the unimpeachable Svend Robinson's new Bill C-250  to make criticism about sexual orientation criminally punishable, the pedophiles of British Columbia will be jumping for joy.  Svend's Bill C-250 obviously INCREASES greatly the risk to our children becoming prey to pedophiles.  A parent cannot now even complain about a neighborhood pervert coaching their children in homosexual sex for fear  Judge arrested over child porn, BBC NEWS UK of being accused of a "Hate Crime".  Many NAMBLA members will certainly be living in Svend's Vancouver riding.  They will most likely present themselves as Homosexual Rights Activists, of course!

Pedophile Activists do not yet present themselves openly for what they are, though we have BC Judges lending pedophiles the support of our Courts.  They prefer to present themselves with those with common views and purposes.  Pedophile Activists present themselves first  as "Women's Rights Activists", and secondly as "Homosexual Rights Activists". Search the sites of these three groups and we think you will be shocked by the unity and resonance of each group with the others.  The "guiding lights" of these groups often have multiple memberships in the other groups. 

Roughly 40% of pedophiles are homosexual - 40 times the incidence in the population at large.  Not yet public about their pursuit of their sexual orientation, pedophiles have increased their access to our children by lobbying to reduce the Age of Consent, presently down to fourteen.

It is extremely rare that a natural father sexually abuses their children.  Biology DOES count!  When pedophile "fathers" are discovered, they are almost always Step-Fathers or the mother's new boyfriend.  It is truly shocking what mothers have routinely accepted from molesting boy friends and Step-Fathers in order to maintain a relationship with the "new man" after Divorce.

Characteristics of the Career a Pedophile is drawn to are:

• access to vulnerable, lonely kids; kids without Dads.  Moms are usually not much of a deterrent to a pedophile. Kids with Moms who were sexually abused themselves and learnt to keep the "family secret"  are easy pickings.

• authority and power

• prestige, respectability and moral impunity

• legal powers to deflect scrutiny by falsely accusing a convenient scapegoat and explain the overt symptoms of sexual abuse.

Pedophiles are shockingly difficult to expose.  Thanks again to the "Charter of Rights", an RCMP investigation will not be started on Pedophile without the testimony of the victim personally.   Police refuse to act on the report of  third parties.  Who directs the Police on which files they may pursue?  The Judges!!!!!

If the pedophile is a casual acquaintance, and not a direct family member having regular access to the child, it is often easiest for the child to take the parents lead that nothing was out of the ordinary, to just fit in, and to forget about it.  The children have then been acclimatized to the sexual contact, however, and will not likely resist the assault a second time.  The rate of assault of girls and boys  is not as different as you might think - about a 6 to 4 ratio.  Sexual abuse of boys is clearly very much underreported.  Boys reporting molestations by women are almost certainly  ignored or ridiculed, and be told they should be "thankful" the female perpetrator "made a man" out of him.

Adult victims of long term sexual abuse rarely have the stamina to overcome the obstacles the professional Pedophile has been careful to hedge around themselves. Freud's  "Oedipus Complex" describing children having an innate urge to have sexual relations with their parent was a purposeful misdiagnosis by Freud to protect his Client/Perpetrator(s).  The defense of choice is often to "Blame on the Victim". Pedophiles often live in a very dark and shrouded world, cloaked by obvious prestige, respectability and power, co-opting even  the famous Sigmund Freud with pay

NAMBLA (North American Man Boy Love Association)

NAMBLA, the North American Man Boy Love Association is a parallel organization within the gay community with headquarters in San Francisco, New York and Vancouver.  They present themselves, of course, as proud "freedom fighters"' associating themselves with the feminist and gay rights movement.  Here are a few links:.  Home Page of the North American Man/Boy Love Association   These sites go up and down regularly.  Those within the community will know how to search for them with selected search words..

NAMBLA, WHO WE ARE 
Wikipedia on North American Man-Boy Love Association
Onelook Search on NAMBLA
NAMBLA History
ACLU defends NAMBLA
CPAC on NAMBLA
NAMBLA: Out of the Movement's Bounds
2000-08-21   ACLU to Defend Pedophile Group.
2003-09-03  Pedophile magazine NAMBLA Bulletin named in suit involving rape, murder of boy
2003-07-xx  NAMBLA Teacher Out
2002-03-13  Perv had teen 'trophy'
2001-10-04  Lawyer Says NAMBLA Trained Pedophiles

WARNING:  Even for adults, those unfamiliar with the present warfare against Canadian Families to gain "emancipation"  and proclamation homosexual "Charter Rights" of Sexual Orientation (which must be written in invisible ink) may find the following links very disturbing.  Hopefully it is obvious we are not promoting teh Activists' viewpoint and that we intend only to warn the Readership of the extent of the Activists'  Vision, organization, and power.

On this Page:   

• Sexual Abuse Recovery

• NAMBLA (North American Man Boy Love Association)

• Butterfly Kisses: Lesbian Pedophilia Organization

• NAWGLA The North American Woman-Girl Love Association

• William Bennest, Burnaby Principal

• David Ramsey, BC Judge

• Dr. John Gossage, TriCity Pediatrician

Pedophile & Sex Offender Directory

Anti-Child Porn Organization
Pedophile & Sex Offender Directory

2005-06-xx_Foundation for Child Cyber-Protection.pdf, by Doug Stead - NAMBLA's  Internet-based methods of getting to our children.

2005-06-xx  Age of Consent Banner.pdf, Doug Stead

2004-10-03 Mother confesses to sex with sons, Pleads guilty to Incest Charges

2004-07-01  Study finds girls molest young boys, female sexual offending is chronically under-reported

2004-04-23  Judge arrested over child porn, BBC NEWS UK

1999-01-29  BC, Pedophilia and the Courts; Justice Duncan Shaw

2004-07-06  Peeping’ Is a ‘Sexual Orientation’ in Canada, Judge (Valmond Romilly)  Finds

2004-10-04  Mother confesses to sex with sons, had intercourse with teenage sons

2004-07-01  Study finds girls molest young boys, female sexual offending is chronically under-reported

William Bennest, Burnaby Principal

1996-09-06  Principal facing porn charges,

William Bennest: Burnaby school principal, September 1996 - February 1998

Dr. John Gossage, TriCity Pediatrician

System failing young victims, Leo Knight

David Ramsey, BC Judge

BC Judge <David Ramsey>  pleads guilty to sex charges

BC Judge, and Pedophile David Ramsey, finally charged, but gets only five years

2004-05-25  Judge's sentencing under scrutiny

BC Judge <David Ramsey>  pleads guilty to sex charges

BC Judge, and Pedophile David Ramsey, finally charged, but gets only five years

More..  BC Judge, David Ramsay

Sexual Abuse Recovery

Pedophiles invariably impose their twisted value system on the  impressionable child.  If adult children of sexual abuse don't  find a way out of the trap of unbearable shame and stress foisted on them by the perpetrator, and  "recover" their emotional independence and  instinctual revulsion/aversion response to the pedophile,  they probably can't escape living in a Stockholm Syndrome Paradigm Shift  and / or  Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder .  (Heads UP, Dads!  Beware SSPS & PTSD yourself!)

Without permission to rage and confront the Perpetrator as an adult, the adult victim will commonly internalize  the values of the pedophile, and will likely become the pedophile eventually.  They then will then walk the walk their "Mentor" has defined for them as children in the absence of their father. 

Many, many pedophiles were themselves sexually abused as children, and were required to observe the "Code of Silence".  Unraveling the lies impressed upon these youngsters is difficult in adulthood, but not impossible with the right help.  In any case, for you Victims out there IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT!.  What you do TODAY is what counts.

British Columbia Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Breaking The Silence, Courtenay, BC
Sexual Abuse Survivors In Recovery Anonymous
Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Sexual Assault
Sexual Abuse/Trauma
Female Sexual Offenders, Courtenay

SARA (Sexual Abuse Recovery Anonymous), women only