"Natural
Parents have NO RIGHTS.... ONLY RESPONSIBILITIES....
"Natural
Parents' Rights now gone with my Homosexual Marriage bill"
16.10 Maximum
Contact & Friendly Parent Rule has to go to conform
to Judicial Practice, or Judges may be held in criminal BREACH OF TRUST"
FYI,
the ideas that the State assigns
Rights &
Responsibilities to it's Citizen is straight from pre-war Nazi
Germany. Under the British system rights are not
State-given, but God Given.
Buying
into the Court's position that what rights remain are Children's Rights,
is buying into the same position that "<Natural> Parents have no
rights", and Canadian Children are at birth the property of the Courts.
Ask a lawyer what "Common Law" is and they will
likely tell you it is
"Judge Made Law", and expand up this to say
"Common Law is whatever the Judges are commonly saying these days".
This is
completely FALSE. The Judges are Agents of the Crown
and they BY DEFINITION Judges
are WITHOUT CAPACITY to make any law whatsoever. Since
1649, only PARLIAMENT
has the Capacity to make Law.
British Common law was NOT created by Judges, it was only observed
and documented by individuals sent out by the newly Norman Crown after
the
Norman Conquest of 1066 to observe and codify the laws and
customs of the various peoples of Britain.. This was done with a
view to aggregate existing customs which may vary across the land,
into a unified body of Laws. The Authority quoted by the Commoners
in their administration of
Common Law were frequently direct quotations from the
Bible and principles
of
Danelaw
The process of documentation took only a couple of
hundred years, and the product was a STATIC body of Law which was
historical, popular, and has served in the intervening centuries as a
Benchmark against which
Statutory Law may be measured for "Fairness".
It does NOT change.
Instead their position to promote the "rights" of
a "Parent" in the widest sense of the word, making NO distinction
between NATURAL PARENTS and wannaabe
Legal Parents. They have bowed to
University of Victoria's
assertion that the SCC's
Trociuk Decision"endorses a
Heterosexual View of the Family and must be ignored",
legitimizing the ongoing
Child
Trafficking by the State which views
Canadian
children as State Property and merchandise for sale in the
lucrative Child Adoption
Market They refuse to be hampered by prior obligations to that
pesky Natural Parent who thinks they can
Veto an Adoption.
It appears that many
"Fathers Rights" groups commonly fall in with the United Nations and
Liberal Irwin Cotler's assertion that
the
Child's Right is to be protected, but the Natural Parent has
"NO RIGHTS", making the State, not
the Natural Parents the Protector of
the Child..
Without
Cause or Consent, no Child shall be removed from a Natural Parent!!!
Svend Robinson (right) cries while being supported by his partner
Max Riveron. Robinson claimed "stress" caused him to steal
the jewelry he intended to give his boyfriend. Robinson continues
to practice law in BC following a deal cut with his
Special Prosecutor.
Svend's
Bill C250 added Homosexuals to the super class of groups in Canada's
retarded "Hate Law". who
can destroy in Criminal Court regular Canadians for exercising
Free Speech.
Even France has rejected Homo-marriage (preferring
France's homosexuals to emigrate to Canada?!). International societies
of Women Judges & Lawyers appear to have designated Canada as the
globe's Homosexual habitat of choice:
Meijers Latest news about globalizing Homo-Marriage & Homo-Parenting;
Coming up: 26-29 June 2005, Toronto, Canada, the conference of the
International Lesbian and Gay Law Association (ILGLaw),
Fabian Society, Communitarian
"Wolves in Sheep's' Clothing"
Globalizing National Socialism (Nazism) since 1884
In June 1989,
Gisele Marie Goudreault, 46 disobeyed a court order to hand her son
Orey over to his father, Rod Steinmann of Ponoka, who had been awarded
custody. She fled with the boy to Mexico and lived there for four months
before moving to California. ... Justice Peter Martin condemned
Goudreault's behaviour,
which prevented Orey and his father from being together during the
child's formative years. "They had the right to know and
love each other. "That possibility was totally and irrevocably
destroyed," Martin said. "What this woman did to this man and this
child is every parent's nightmare."2004-02-19
US teen 'discovers own kidnap', BBC
Darrel
should be able to sue Justice Southin PERSONALLY for DAMAGES, but will
that ever happen? All members of the Law Societies have sworn
their First Allegiance to their Society members.
Many
thanks to the
Western Standard for reporting Jeremy's Story. Jeremy is a
nominee for Equal Parenting's "Shadow-Parliament".
James Dobson's "Focus on the Family":
Femi-Narcissists &
Counter-Reformers
James Dobson's "Focus on the Family":
Femi-Narcissists &
Counter-Reformers
Christians have been perturbed in recent years by various strange people
claiming to be in
"Spiritual Authority" over the
Fellowship and preaching the
Bill Gothard /
Gary Smalley
doctrine that "Men are to blame for
discord in the family"and
women are simply
"Responders" to their husband's
"thoughtless abuses"when they drive him out of the house and out of
the lives of their children.
Dobson taught women in his audience Gary Smalley's
version of "Femi-Narcissism" and that if they want to save their marriages,
discontented wives need to recognize that their husbands are at fault and
to Separate from them. Dobson tells wives of "unteachable" husbands to "Break your
husband's heart" and to "hold your husband's
feet to the fire" until they became "teachable and
accountable' to the "Spiritual Authority"
God has put in place over him, the Pastor.
These highlighted phrases Dobson repeated over and over into his female audience
like mantras through the eighties and nineties. This is another Cultish
characteristic of Dobson's Promise Keepers
Counter Reformation.. If you don't want to be divorced, guys, Dobson
requires you to obey and swear allegiance to your
Promise Keepers Pastor.
To this we say, "You cannot serve
two Masters!"
Matthew 6
Since Dobson and his guests started infecting his
Listeners with his Femi-Narcisism,
the rate of divorce among church people has TRIPLED, surpassing the population
at large. Sadly, you are now more likely be be divorced if you marry a church
girl than if you marry and un-churched girl.
“IF
A COUPLE HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR MORE THAN FIVE YEARS, ANY
PERSISTENT DISHARMONY IN THEIR MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP IS
USUALLY ATTRIBUTABLE TO THE HUSBAND'S LACK OF GENUINE LOVE”.
James Dobson is a well known psychologist, author,
talk show host, and promoter of the
Promise Keepers Cult. He
and his
"Focus on the Family" organization and media present ideas
like
Compulsory Forgiveness which he and his guests purport
to be "Biblical" or
"Christian".
This
writer
believes
that the views Dobson and his guests promote are EXTREMELY DESTRUCTIVE
to families experiencing Sexual Abuse, and are DEVASTATING to the mental
health of sexual abuse Victims and their Recovery from
Stockholme Syndrome Paradigm
Shift (SSPS) or punishing their
Spouse with the
penalties they withheld from their Perpetrator.
Here are some of the assertions made on Dobson's
"Focus on the Family" broadcast, many of
which are LIES, misrepresenting what the Bible has to say ...
"You
have to walk in Forgiveness because the only
other choice is to be Bitter".
"If you don't Forgive you are only hurting your own
health."
"Don't tell anybody what <the Perp> did".
"Don't let <the Perp> be afraid of you".
"Don't
let <the Perp> feel Guilty".
"Total Forgiveness means
<the Perp> doesn't even know what he did or
how it affected you.
"Forgiveness is not Reconciliation"
"Forgiveness is not Forgetting"
"Forgiveness has nothing to do with the other person,Forgiveness is something you do for yourself."
It is truly incredible what these self described
"Mighty Men of
God" claim to be "Biblical" or "Christian".
Sadly Churches, supposedly a Refuge for the
wounded, regularly become a
"Den of Thieves and Robbers".
The marketplace of "Money Changers" has become a marketplace for Book Sellers.
We are pleased to tell you however,
these "Biblical"
views are far from "Biblical" and appear to be a
malicious compilation of "GIGO" Half-Truths carefully
selected and arranged to teach an ANTI-Biblical
position that precludes the Biblical pursuit of
Vindication and
Restoration of losses either by the Victim
themselves or by their Appointee, their "Kinsmen Redeemer".
FYI, in the event of a
Victim's incapacitation, the Bible teaches
that a
Kinsmen Redeemer was to pursue the
prescribed rightful remedies against all wrongs
on the Victim's behalf.
The following is are some examples what Jesus
said about
Forgiveness. Sure there are verses
that may drop the
"if he repents", but to this we note that
abbreviation of a full blown quotation is a
normal and natural way in which we communicate.
If we didn't abbreviate, our conversations could
never distill things down to a conclusion and
terminate. So, while we have to live with
abbreviations all the time to function, we don't
generally want to loose the conversational
context of an abbreviation.
Where
there is a fuller discussion on a subject we
think the fuller version is preferable and a
topical compilation on the is even better.
Two conversation are found in
Luke 17 (ESV)
and
Matthew 18 (ESV).
In both, Forgiveness is PREDICATED upon
Repentance of the Debtor.
This is of course no big surprise and it is both
sensible and a Biblical Theme. Recall John
the Baptists'
"Repent an be Baptized for the Forgiveness of
your Sins.... be Reconciled to God..."
etc.
"1
And he said to his disciples, "Temptations
to sin are
sure to come, but woe to the one through
whom they come! 2
It would be better for him if a millstone
were hung around his neck and he were cast
into the sea than that he should cause one
of these little ones to sin.
3
Pay attention to yourselves!
If your
brother sins, rebuke him, and
if he repents,
forgive him, 4
and if
he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, 'I
repent,' you must forgive him."Luke 17 (ESV)
"7
"Woe to the world for
temptations to sin!
For it is necessary that temptations
come, but woe to the one by whom the
temptation comes! ....
15
"If
your brother sins against you go and
tell him his fault,
between you and him alone. If he
listens to you, you have gained your
brother. 16
But if he does not listen, take one
or two others along with you, that
every
charge may be established by the
evidence of two or three witnesses
.
...
"21
Then
Peter came up and said to him,
"Lord, how often will my brother sin
against me, and I forgive him? As
many as seven times?" 22
Jesus said to him,
"I do not say to
you seven times, but seventy times
seven!
"23 "Therefore
the kingdom of heaven may be
compared to a king who wished to
settle accounts with his servants.
24 When he began to settle,
one was brought to him who owed him
ten thousand talents "25 And since he
could not pay, his master ordered
him to be sold, with his wife and
children and all that he had, and
payment to be made. 26 So the
servant fell on his knees, imploring
him, 'Have
patience with me, and I will pay you
everything.'
<He acknowledged his debt.>
27 And out of pity for
him, the master of that servant
released him and forgave him the
debt.
"28 But when
that same servant went out, he found
one of his fellow servants who owed
him a hundred denarii, and
seizing him, he began to choke him,
saying, 'Pay what you owe.' 29
So his fellow servant fell down and
pleaded with him,
'Have patience with me, and I will
pay you.' <He
acknowledged his debt> 30 He refused
and went and put him in prison until
he should pay the debt. 31
When his fellow servants saw what
had taken place, they were greatly
distressed, and they went and
reported to their master all that
had taken place. 32 Then his
master summoned him and said to him,
'You
wicked servant! I forgave you all
that debt because you pleaded with
me. 33 And should not you have had
mercy on your fellow servant, as I
had mercy on you?'34 And
in anger his master
delivered him <who didn't
forgive a repentant debtor> to the jailers, until
he should pay all his debt. 35
So also my heavenly Father will do
to every one of you, if you do not
forgive your brother from your
heart."
Matthew 18 (ESV)
A characteristic of
Narcissism is a liberal flow of double talk & double
standards from the lips. Following on the heels of
Doubletalk is a chronic
Scapegoating of a relatively innocent third person or class
of persons to explain the insurmountable difficulties in life
the Narcissist will inevitably find after believing their own
double talk.
When
Feminism and
Narcissism converge, we call this
FemiNarcissism, which seems to have become the dominant view
of career Feminists at the Universities and many "family" based
parts of the Public Service..
We believe
FemiNarcissism has to be a type of mental illness
which is LEARNED, usually through aggressive indoctrination
processes and threat of course Failure at the Universities.
We believe it is a short step from
FemiNarcissist to
Psychopath, if they are not already synonymous.
Psychopaths are surprisingly common, being estimated at around
10% of the population.
Graduates of
FemiNarcissism programs are incapable fair or
equitable judgment, and so are the least capable of functioning
in a fair and equitable Court System. They are in fact DANGEROUS
in a "free" society and are inherently parasitic when they are
catered to with government grants and jobs.
Nevertheless the custom today seems to be that
FemiNarcissists dominate broad segments of the Courts
and Public Service.
We don't think there is much "former" Catholic in their religious
teachings. Both are certainly teaching the Anti-Christian notion that Pastors are to rule
over their Congregation by some kind of Divine Right which puts them in
"Spiritual Authority". This is an Identifier of a Cult.
In contrast, the Bible tells you that a Christians "Good Shepherd" calls
his sheep, and they follow him as he walks ahead.
John 10 A Christian "Under-Shepherd", "feeds the sheep"
without pay or overlording.
1 Peter 5
An
Anti-Christian hireling takes a stick, beats them, and drives the them
ahead of him. When danger is encountered, he flees.
The "Good Shepherd", of course, lays his life down
for his sheep.
John 10
Building on Gothard & McCartney's foundation,
Rick Warren and his Purpose Driven ideas have added the teaching that Warren,
Rick Church
members who do not submit to the "Spiritual Authority" of the Pastor are to be
first alienated, and then disfellowshipped. This also is classic Cult
behavior. No surprise when you discover Warren was raised in a famous Cult
town.
"Purpose Driven" Studies are promoted as "Bible Studies" but what is read is
almost exclusively Warren, and less than 1% Bible (estimated). This also
is a classic Cult tactic. What gave us the Freedoms we enjoy today was
people reading the Guttenberg, Wycliffe, Tyndale, and King James Bibles - not
the Commentators - and putting what they read not into compliance,
but into ACTION.
Rick Warren is presently active in Global Politics, presenting himself as a
consultant in creating a global Peace.
The most important thing you can do to protect your family against these
Wolves in Sheep's Clothing is to refuse to submit yourself to "Spiritual
Idolatry".
Instead, know your Bible and it's author intimately
FIRST HAND. Counter to what
Promise Keepers and
Bill Gothard Ministries will tell you, are NO INTERMEDIARIES. You have
but One maker. Let us send you to
New Testament Harmony of the
Gospels: " Life of Christ" for
your ruminations. Don't forget you can have the Bible Chapter read to you as
you work or nap by pressing the Play button found near the Verses.
A contributing factor to the divorce rate in Church tripling in the eighties &
nineties has to be Dobson's program of
Courtship. In this he teaches that due to the inevitability of premarital
sex when boys and girls, (and men and women in following decades!!) get
together, they should be kept separated into same sex groups preparing a list of
criteria they want to "find" in their spouse. When "ready" for marriage,
the girls are told to "go shopping" for a husband, and when a Candidate they
like is approved by their parents, they may marry.
Again due again to the "inevitable" premarital sex, engagements are to be SHORT,
certainly less than a year. Long engagements which would build and test
their bond and character over several years are called "abusive" to the female.
Our guess is that Dobsonite marriages tend to result in a couple of virtual
strangers living in a home without the benefit of a decade or two of platonic
relationships with the opposite sex, and little or no prior knowledge of the
gritty sexual details in themselves and in their marriage partner until AFTER
the legal bond has been created.
Meanwhile they have been told all things sexual, even just a thought or a look
of admiration, are forbidden until they are "married". This is a LIE.
The Bible has a very positive view of curbed sexual passions, marriage, child
rearing etc. While "Thou shalt not covet, commit adultery, or fornicate",
you are "blessed" in "going forth to multiply".
Facilitating this LIE is the NIV's replacement of prohibitions of
crisply understood "Fornication
and Adultery" with prohibitions of "Immorality" a term so vague and subjective
it's void of meaning can be filled with virtually anything. To
Dobsonites, sexual thoughts prior outside of marriage is "Immorality". To
homosexuals, sex with the opposite sex
is "Immorality".
This
we believe is an inherently unstable condition, possibly unstable by design.
Dobson's remedy for this unnecessary marital instability is
"Submission to Spiritual Authority",
and Femi-Narcisism.
"Carol Rhodes, former Friend of the Court Investigator ...
recently did an interview with host Richard Farr on the
KRights.com Internet Radio station. Michigan Shared parenting
activist
Robert Pedersen of
A Child’s Right was also interviewed. To listen, click
here.
Dobson's Focus on the Family" brings Catholic Inheritance
Theft to USA
"You will do your children irreparable harm if you leave
them an Inheritance, making them lazy loafers. Instead
call our 800 number to arrange
Planned Giving and
Estate Planning"
Vs "A
good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children"
Proverbs 13:22
"Twenty years
after sexually attacking
Liz Seccuro while both were
students at the
University of Virginia in
Charlottesville,
William Beebe -- a recovering
alcoholic who had wrestled for years
with whether making amends would
further injure
Seccuro-- sent her
a letter of apology. Via e-mail, the
Associated Press reported, Beebe
acknowledged to
Seccuro
that he had raped her.
She responded by contacting
authorities in Charlottesville and
in Las Vegas, where Beebe lived.
Beebe was arrested. In spite of his
e-mail confession, <his
lawyer>
denied the rape, but eventually he
pled guilty to a lesser charge of
aggravated sexual battery. The plea
is believed to be in exchange for
Beebe's cooperation with an
investigation of others involved in
the attack. Sentencing is scheduled
for March 15.
Bill Gothard's Doctrine on "Guarding against the DEFILEMENT
of LISTENING to an Evil Report" Protects Pedophiles
"You must not tell your family what we talked about here at IBYC
seminars, or let anyone but our Alumni see our printed materials"
"The reason why Families
are failing is because men have failed to assume God's role of Spiritual
Leadership in their Families"
"Former" Roman Catholic, Bill Gothard's teachings are still being taught
as "Biblical" by his Mentee Gary Smalley
at Promise Keepers and
Women of Faith conferences where men
and women- no matter what their age - are still being separated
and indoctrinated separately. Gothard has never married, but is a
self-professed "Family & Relationships Expert"
"Listen,
you priests, to this warning .. I will
spread on your faces the excrement of
these animals you offer me, ...
where the excrement goes will I send
you!" Malachi, ~ 430
BC
One Adult Survivor's
story of Confronting a Church Pedophile.
Watch in OnLine. All victims
of institutionalized Evil can learn to
confront their Perps learning from
examples like this Sexual Abuse victim's
story. This author suggests we follow a
similar pattern with this these
Judges,
Social Workers, and
Teachers who displace parents and
horribly abuse parents and their
children. First
you must recognize their Lies that "You must Forgive",
"Anger is a Sin" you
must
"Turn the other Cheek
(and look the other way); you must
put it "under the Blood (under the Rug)"; that "God put us in
Authority over you ..
(oppose Us, you oppose God)" "If you don't Forgive
(and keep
your mouth shut), God won't
Forgive you". Use their
own book of
Authority to confront them on their
Lies: You will quickly find..
"Blessed
be the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so
that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the
comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."
Paul of Tarsus, (II Corinthians 1) ~ 57 AD
"If
a man will not submit the the Spiritual Authority God has placed
over him - the Pastor -, his wife should leave him to break his
heart and hold his feet to the fire until he becomes Teachable
and Accountable to the Pastor."
"You will do your children irreparable harm if you leave
them an Inheritance, making them lazy loafers. Instead
call our 800 number to arrange
Planned Giving and
Estate Planning"
Vs
"A
good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children"
Proverbs 13:22
"Listen, you priests, to this warning ..
I will spread on your faces the
excrement of these animals you offer me,
... where the excrement goes will
I send you!"
Malachi, ~ 430 BC
James 3, of course is not about gossip against the Preacher, as they
would have you believe, but about the importance of scrutinizing the
Pulpit and its “tongue”, or “rudder”, the Preacher. How great a fire is
started by just a small flame!
A characteristic of
Narcissism is a liberal flow of double talk & double
standards..
Following .. is a chronic
Scapegoating of a relatively innocent third person or class
of persons
We believe
FemiNarcissism
< is>
a mental illness
which is LEARNED, ..
through ..
indoctrination
and threat of course Failure at
Universities and
High Schools.
Psychopaths are surprisingly common, being estimated at around
10% of the population.
"Come unto me, all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will
give you Peace. Take MY yoke upon you,
and learn of me, and you will find
rest for your souls."
“Our goal as husbands should be to adjust our
behavior so our wives won't have to react in anger.”
“IF
A COUPLE HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR MORE THAN FIVE YEARS, ANY
PERSISTENT DISHARMONY IN THEIR MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP IS
USUALLY ATTRIBUTABLE TO THE HUSBAND'S LACK OF GENUINE LOVE”.
"You must not tell your family what we talked about here at IBYC
seminars, or let anyone but our Alumni see our printed materials"
"The reason why Families
are failing is because men have failed to assume God's role of Spiritual
Leadership in their Families"
"Former" Roman Catholic, Bill Gothard's teachings are still being taught
as "Biblical" by his Mentee Gary Smalley
at Promise Keepers and
Women of Faith conferences where men
and women- no matter what their age - are still being separated
and indoctrinated separately. Gothard has never married, but is a
self-professed "Family & Relationships Expert"
"Interdependence" is also a doctrine of the Economic
Globalizers who claim national independence is what causes wars. Their
objective is to dissolve nations into greater and greater economic blocks by
destroying Economic
INDEPENDENCE
and imposing "Economic
INTERDEPENDENCE".
Bob Buford created "mentoring" relationships with
Peter Drucker to manifest in western
evangelical churches Drucker's vision for
Global Socialism / Nazism /
Luciferianism. Mentees include at least himself and "Halftime"
members, and the infamous cultist
Rick Warren.
"Like-Minded" Counter-Reformers promoting themselves
into a "Leadership" role and apparently standing with Drucker and Buford
include Bill McCartney,
Bill Gothard, and
James Dobson, All of these
promote "Feminarcissm" and viciously attack fathers who will not
position themselves and their families in the cult's Hierarchy.
"Interdependence" is also a doctrine of the Economic
Globalizers who claim national independence is what causes wars. Their
objective is to dissolve nations into greater and greater economic blocks by
destroying Economic
INDEPENDENCE
and imposing "Economic
INTERDEPENDENCE".
“social sector institutions have a
particular kind of purpose .... The ‘product’ of a church is a churchgoer
whose life is being changed. The task of
social-sector organizations is to create human
health and well being.”
.... Peter Drucker
Instead
their position to promote the "rights" of a
"Parent" in the widest sense of the word, making
NO distinction between
NATURAL PARENTS and wannaabe
Legal Parents. They have bowed to
University of
Victoria's assertion that the SCC's
Trociuk Decision
"endorses a Heterosexual View of the Family and must be ignored",
legitimizing the ongoing
Child
Trafficking by the State which views
Canadian
children as State Property and merchandise for sale in the
lucrative Child Adoption Market They
refuse to be hampered by prior obligations to that pesky Natural
Parent who thinks they can
Veto an Adoption.
It appears that many
"Fathers Rights" groups commonly fall in with the United
Nations and Liberal Irwin
Cotler's assertion that the
Child's Right is to be protected, but the Natural Parent has
"NO RIGHTS", making
the State, not the Natural Parents
the Protector of the Child..
Without Cause or Consent,
no Child shall be
removed from a Natural Parent!!!
The common practice in BC Courts when Fathers
do not pay Child Support -
which most of the time is merely
Imputed - is to send non-paying Father to Prison until he
or his family members pay the fees imposed by the Judge.
Even when mothers agree that Child Support
should no longer be paid, we find that the
Family Enforcement
agencies, which are private contractors functioning as
Bounty Hunters, typically refuse to end their claim on the
father's income,.
"I get government cheques..... you stupid
Canadians.. I get government cheques."
Canadian Affirmative Action programs coupled with massive
immigration from "non-traditional" sources to accommodate UN commitments
precluded white males and many white females from employment and progressive
employment in government offices.
These same White Males are now routinely subjected to
Imputed
Income by Family court Judges - the majority of whom are beneficiaries of
Affirmative Action programs - when Dad's incomes aren't as high as the Judge
expects them to be.
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