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Kari Simpson & Terry O'Neal's "RoadKill Radio"

Tuesday Call-In show to combat attacks on the Natural Family, Parental Rights, Freedom of Speech, Common Law..

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Kari Simpson is executive director of the Citizen's Research Institute in Langley, B.C.  CALL IN:  (604) 525-4167;  Tuesdays,  7:30-9:30 PM;  EMAIL THE SHOW LIVE:
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More:  Issues:  Simpson, Kari;
Issues:  Barbara Kay,  National Post
News:  Simms,  Mary Woo: BC HRT;
News:  BC Human Rights Tribunal;
Issues:  Corren Agreement;
About:  EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
EP Trek Generic Calendar;
About:  Equal Parenting How To's:  Three Layer Cake;
About:  Grandparents in Equal Parenting;
EP Trek Generic Calendar:
Issues:  Kinship Families or Grandparents raising Children::
About:  Grandparents in Equal Parenting

Liberal Irwin Cotler:  "Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS"

Irwin Cotler, former Liberal "Justice" Minister robbed Canadians of their NATURAL PARENTS' Rights

Irwin Cotler - Google Search;
Irwin Cotler - Google Video

"Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS....  ONLY RESPONSIBILITIES....

"Natural Parents' Rights now  gone with my Homosexual Marriage bill"

16.10 Maximum Contact & Friendly Parent Rule has to go to conform to Judicial Practice, or Judges may be held in criminal BREACH OF TRUST"

FYI, the ideas that the State assigns Rights & Responsibilities to it's Citizen is straight from pre-war Nazi Germany.   Under the British system rights are not State-given, but God Given.

Buying into the Court's position that what rights remain are Children's Rights, is buying into the same position that "<Natural> Parents have no rights", and Canadian Children are at birth the property of the Courts.

More:  News:  Cotler, Irwin:  "Natural Parents have NO RIGHTS...;
News:  European Union;
Issues:  Paul Watson:  Nazi Origins of European Union;;;
Issues: G. Edward  Griffin ;
Issues: Fabian Socialism;

Common Law Perverted by Activist Judges and Legal Oligarchy

Chapter VII. The English Common Law. Section 57. The Norman Conquest

A beautiy of British  Common Law is that it is STATIC, and NOT DYNAMIC as these Activist Judges would have you think.

Ask a lawyer what "Common Law" is and they will likely tell you it is "Judge Made Law", and expand up this to say "Common Law is whatever the Judges are commonly saying these days"

This is completely FALSE.  The Judges are Agents of the Crown and they BY DEFINITION Judges are WITHOUT CAPACITY to make any law whatsoever.  Since 1649, only PARLIAMENT has the Capacity to make Law.

British Common law was NOT created by Judges, it was only observed and documented by individuals sent out by the newly Norman Crown after the Norman Conquest of 1066  to observe and codify the laws and customs of the various peoples of Britain..  This was done with a view to aggregate existing customs which may vary across the land,  into a unified body of Laws.  The Authority quoted by the Commoners in their administration of Common Law were frequently direct quotations from the Bible and principles of Danelaw

The process of documentation took only a couple of hundred years, and the product was a STATIC body of Law which was historical, popular, and has served in the intervening centuries as a Benchmark against which Statutory Law may be measured for "Fairness".  It does NOT change.

More:   Issues:  Common Law Perverted by Activist Judges and Legal Oligarchy;
Issues:  "Judicial Interpretation" to pervert Statutes of Parliament;
Issues:  Judicial Activism is Breach of Trust;
Issues:  Judicial Globalization is Treason

Beware of the "Parental Rights" IMPOSTER!!!!

"Natural Parent's Rights" Vs "Parent's Rights"

Be on the lookout for the "Parent's Rights" IMPOSTER.  Insist on "Natural Parents Only", please!

It comes as a big surprise to us that many groups that present themselves as "Parents Rights" groups  REFUSE to defend the  NATURAL PARENT, and  and to demand RESTORATION of Natural Parents Rights taken from Canadians in the Homosexual Marriage legislation.

Instead their position to promote the "rights" of  a "Parent" in the widest sense of the word, making NO distinction  between NATURAL PARENTS and wannaabe Legal Parents.  They have bowed to University of Victoria's  assertion that  the SCC's Trociuk Decision "endorses a Heterosexual View of the Family and must be ignored", legitimizing the ongoing Child Trafficking by the State which views Canadian children as State Property and merchandise for  sale in the lucrative Child Adoption Market  They refuse to be hampered by prior obligations to that pesky Natural Parent who thinks they can Veto an Adoption.

It appears that many "Fathers Rights" groups commonly fall in with the United Nations and Liberal Irwin Cotler's assertion that the Child's Right is to be protected, but the Natural Parent has "NO RIGHTS", making the State, not the Natural Parents the Protector of the Child..

Without Cause or Consent, no Child shall be removed from a Natural Parent!!!

More:  About:  Beware of the IMPOSTER!!!!  "Natural Parent's Rights" Vs "Parent's Rights";
News:  Lessard, Hester - Heterosexual view of Parenthood must be ignored
News:  Smith, Judge Daphne, BCSC, for Child Trafficking;
Issues:  Trociuk, Darrell;
Issues:  Child Trafficking, Canadian;
Testimonials:  Rick Fredrickson of Saskatoon

Obama's Muslim Faith

Obama's Muslim Faith - Google Video
Obama's global currency / reserve notes - Google Video

"Quran commands Muslims to TERRORIZE unbelievers".

"Pretend you are your Enemy's Friend.... and then Kill him"

“Slay the idolaters wherever you find them, and take them, and confine them, and lie in wait for them at every place of ambush” (from Sura 9)

Fitna - Google Video

Revolution Muslim - Google Search;
Revolution Muslim - Google Video

More:  News:  Obama's Muslim Faith;
News:  Obama's Fake Birth Certificate & Presidential Ineligibility;
Testimonials:  Jessen, Gianna: Right to Life for Children surviving Abortions, Born Alive Truth
Issues:  William Wagener:  "On Second Thought";;
Funstuff:  Biltz, Mark:  Blood Moons over Isreal;
Issues:  Russo, Aaron:  "America, Freedom to Fascism"

Funstuff:  Life of Christ, ESV

Obama's Fake Birth Certificate & Presidential Ineligibility

Obama's Birth Certificate - Google Search
Obama's Birth Certificate - Google Video

More:  News:  Obama's Fake Birth Certificate & Presidential Ineligibility;
Issues:  William Wagener:  "On Second Thought";
News:  Obama's Muslim Faith;
News:  Obama's Forged Birth Certificate;
Funstuff:  Biltz, Mark:  Blood Moons over Isreal;
Issues:  Russo, Aaron:  "America, Freedom to Fascism"
Funstuff:  Life of Christ, ESV

Svend Robinson:  NDP MP, Lawyer & Thief

Svend Robinson - Jewl Thief

FOR broader  "Hate Crimes" Legislation

Svend Robinson - Google Search;
Svend Robinson - Google Video

Bill C250 - Google Search

Svend Robinson (right) cries while being supported by his partner Max Riveron.  Robinson claimed "stress"  caused him to steal the jewelry he intended to give his boyfriend.  Robinson continues to practice law in BC following a deal cut with his  Special Prosecutor

Svend's Bill C250 added Homosexuals to the super class of groups in Canada's retarded "Hate Law". who can destroy in Criminal Court regular Canadians for exercising Free Speech

More:  News:  Robinson, Svend  NDP MP, Lawyer & Thief for "Hate Crimes" Legislation;
Issues:  "Special Prosecutors"  for Lawyers & Judges;
Issues:  "Hate Crime" Thought Police, Tyranny of Human Rights Tribunals;
Issues:  Coulter, Ann:  Freedom of Speech, Freedom of Assembly;
News:  Shaw, Duncan:  BC Judge for retailing Child Pornography

Pink Conservatives Moore, Keddy & Prentice vote for Homo-Marriage and elimination of Natural Parents Rights

2005-06-28  How'd They Vote Bill C-38, Third Reading (Same-sex Marriage) Voting FOR Homosexual Marriage (& putting into our children's schools, Homosexual Sex Education  Homosexual School Counselors, etc. therefore)   is James Moore, (Port Moody--Westwood--Port Coquitlam) 

2005-06-29  Marriage now just a sexual relationship, National Post

2005-06-29  For better or worse House of Commons approves same-sex marriage 158-133, National Post

Even France has rejected Homo-marriage (preferring France's homosexuals to emigrate to Canada?!). International societies of Women Judges & Lawyers appear to have designated Canada as the globe's Homosexual habitat of choice: Meijers Latest news about globalizing Homo-Marriage & Homo-Parenting;   Coming up:  26-29 June 2005, Toronto, Canada, the conference of the International Lesbian and Gay Law Association (ILGLaw),

Fabian Society, Communitarian "Wolves in Sheep's' Clothing"

Globalizing National Socialism (Nazism) since 1884

Fabian Society - Google Search;
Fabian Society - Google Video 

More:  News:  Fabian Society, Communitarian "Wolves in Sheep's' Clothing";
News:  John Dewey, Educating Americans for Hegelian Communitarianism, (AKA Marxism)

Real Fathers for Justice - News

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Sniper Killer Margaret MacDonald acquitted of husband's murder

Claire Margaret MacDonald / AAP

2006-03-04  Tears as 'sniper' woman acquitted of murder; "Claire Margaret MacDonald, 39, pleaded not guilty to murdering her 40-year-old husband Warren MacDonald at the couple's property  ...  she donned camouflage gear and hid in a "sniper's nest" in bushes for 90 minutes before shooting her husband six times."  Claire Margaret MacDonald, 39 - Google Search

Goudreault, Gisele:  Mother's abduction of son Orey

2005-06-15   Mom imprisoned for '89 abduction  

In June 1989, Gisele Marie Goudreault, 46 disobeyed a court order to hand her son Orey over to his father, Rod Steinmann of Ponoka, who had been awarded custody. She fled with the boy to Mexico and lived there for four months before moving to California. ...  Justice Peter Martin condemned Goudreault's behaviour, which prevented Orey and his father from being together during the child's formative years.   "They had the right to know and love each other.  "That possibility was totally and irrevocably destroyed," Martin said.  "What this woman did to this man and this child is every parent's nightmare."  2004-02-19  US teen 'discovers own kidnap', BBC


Trociuk, Darrel:  Constitutional Right to Paternity Registration in BC Vital Statistics

Trociuk Story:  Dad  wins in the Supreme Court of Canada - He takes on the provincial government of British Columbia to get his name on the birth record, Children's Rights Council;

Darrel should be able to sue Justice Southin PERSONALLY for DAMAGES, but will that ever happen?  All members of the Law Societies have sworn their First Allegiance to their Society members.

More on ..Trociuk Darrell

2006-04-20 “Men in Black” Black Fridays for Divorced Canadian Men and Non-Custodial (NCP) Fathers

Many thanks to the Western Standard for reporting Jeremy's Story.  Jeremy is a nominee for Equal Parenting's "Shadow-Parliament".  

Gary Smalley: Bill Gothard Mentee, Femi-Narcissist & Counter-Reformer with an unearned PhD

Gary Smalley

Gary Smalley is a Promise Keepers Cult promoter and book seller.  He promotes Femi-Narcissism, selling books and seminars to church women, teaching them  to "discipline" their husbands and get what they want by setting demands that must be met in order not to be Divorced.  The criteria to be met is that the wife must be provided with "whatever will make her happy" and make her "want to stay married".  Of course this is a disastrous basis for any relationship.  It defines the ground rules of  relationship with a woman to be one of a Servant to a Narcissist or worse.

Smalley along with many of the James Dobson crew teach that a woman is a "Responder" and a man is an "Initiator". By this they mean that even when a woman "responds" by screaming, throwing things around or hitting her husband she is is not responsible for her behavior because it was the husband that "initiated" her "Response". 

Some Promise Keepers Churches (and we guess it is many) will even tell you that when your wife is off in an Adulterous relationship she cannot be faulted because her adultery is not an indication of her moral failure, but an indication of YOUR FAILURE to sufficiently provide her "EMOTIONAL NEEDS" and "LOVE HER SACRIFICIALLY" in the home so that she "wouldn't want to" seek outside the home to have her "needs" met.

Whereas a misbehaving woman may be attracted to Smalley's doctrines of "Initiator & Responder" to excuse herself, believing the his doctrines will do severe damage to her as a Person.  Think about it.  Smalley teaches her to believe she is a creature that is by nature driven by emotions and feelings, and that by being the "weaker vessel" she is without the higher brain functions of  self regulation and therefore without moral culpability for her own misbehavior.   We think believing Smalley's doctrines is sufficient to create a condition of Learnt Narcissism in these "Women of Faith".

On discovery of the much encouraged "Trial Separation" for "Counseling", husbands are also told by Smalley, Dobson, and many others that on penalty of loosing their marriages they must comply not only with the new Narcissism of their wives, but also commit to comply with the  requirements of their "Spiritual Authority" the local Promise Keepers "Leader" and a "Mentor"

For your own good, of course, the details of your life will be discussed with increasing ranks of the Promise Keepers hierarchy as required in order to help you overcome "your problem".  This writer sees this as a reinstitution of The Confessional. 

A suffering Promise Keeper told us that  there are only the two objectives  in "PKs".  They are:

1) Submission to the Spiritual Authority ("Tithing" & "Giving" your "Time, Talent, and Treasure"  and

2) No "Impurity" which means in practical terms, no masturbation, which PKs say is "self worship", constitutes Adultery, and is grounds for Divorce

This seems to be verified by this writers' observations and by many other PKs who are highly supportive of such teachings and the disciplinary actions taken when 1 & 2 are not obeyed..  Witness the Purpose Driven Church of an even more malicious cult leader in Rick Warren

To help you with your "Purity" goals, PKs set up "Accountability Groups" during which you are expected to talk about your masturbation experiences in the past,  how long it's been since you last masturbated, and how you are doing so you won't masturbate, etc..  He reported that he was having a terrible time with sexual arousal during his  Promise Keeper meetings, and he was now thinking he may be a Homosexual.  He believed others in the meetings were having the same problem.

BTW these PK teachings are NOT be supported by the Bible.  "Onanism", as they call it, had nothing to do with masturbation.  It was about Onan defeating the intent of the Law, and his stealing the Inheritance of his brother's widow.

"If only he knew", quotations from Gary Smalley

In If Only he knew, Smalley says the following:

“She resisted the idea that I could trace their broken relationship to her husband’s failure.

0h, this is ridiculous. Everyone knows it's a fifty - fifty deal. I'm just as much responsible as he was,’ she argued.

'Well, I'm looking for my first exception <Smalley says>. I would certainly appreciate it if you would explain to me where you were wrong in the relationship," I told her. An hour later, she realized that if her husband had treated her differently, she would have RESPONDED much differently during those years. We traced everything he had accused her of to his failure to love her.” ….

(Gary Smalley, p79 - 80)

“Our goal as husbands should be to adjust our behavior so our wives won't have to react in anger.”

(Gary Smalley, p70)

Naturally, since in Smalley's eyes the husbands are ALWAYS at fault for disharmony in the home,  recommends husbands adopt the following obeisance before their faultless wives,

"How do you put up with me? How do you live with me? You deserve the medal of honor for staying with me. You deserve the purple heart. Your are an amazing woman to live with such an insensitive man……. 'How do you put up with such a crumb like me, as insensitive as I am?’”

Smalley does like to grind away at the "Men are such beasts" themes. 

“We sat down at the kitchen table and started going through each item. It took only ten minutes for us to figure out that every time she had been disrespectful to me I had I had either got out of bed grouchy or been critical of her most of the day. I hadn’t earned her respect. It was amazing. All three things I had felt she should change were a direct result of my failure to love her in a genuine way.” (p 76)


"I am not suggesting that the husband is solely responsible for all disharmony in marriage. Some day-to-day conflicts may be the result of his wife's physical exhaustion, health problems, over extended schedules, etc. On any given day, she may respond negatively to her husband due to a headache, a disturbing phone call from her father, or any number of other temporary upsets. Certainly, the husband is not to blame for these occasional problems. However, I have found that after five years of marriage, A husband can eliminate prolonged disharmony in his marriage by knowing his wife's needs and meeting them on a consistent basis."

"I know of at least three types of men who resist accepting this concept: 1. A man whose wife has left him. He would have to admit the failure of the marriage was his fault, and that admission is almost too much to ask of him.”

(p 74 - 75)

“Wives are often accused of being strong-willed, and rebellious' when in reality, they’re simply responding to their husbands' thoughtless abuses. …... He had already gone too far - he had offended her too often and too severely - so her spirit completely shut him out of her life.”

(p 72)

Gary Smalley's companion book for women  “For Better or Best” is philosophically identical.

Smalley's Mentors:  Bill Gothard & Henry Brandt

Smalley says he became involved in his "Ministry" through his employment at Bill Gothard Ministries' in the 1980's.  There it seems he learned Gothard's cultish doctrines of authoritarian "Mentorship" and submission to "Spiritual' Authority"   

Smalley also attributes his work to his "Mentor" Henry Brandt, who wrongly teaches "Anger is a Sin".

“It’s always great to hear from Dr. Brandt, the man who directed me into what I’m doing today. The advice he gave me years ago still has a daily effect on what I do. His insight was enough to give me a gift I will carry with me for the rest of my life.”

Cover, When you’re tired

Smalley was in those days like many of us on the cusp of loosing his marriage.  Somehow, he decided to take the required position that he must become the Family Scapegoat, and never include his wife in any failure or problem if he wanted to stay married.  He did so, "saved" his marriage and began writing his books preaching that this constitutes a "good marriage".  Sales into the Church market were swift..

In his books and his same-sex Seminars, Smalley   teaches women and men separately,  Like the Bill Gothard Seminars, before attending a Seminar, Smalley's Disciples are required to commit to secrecy  and forbidden from telling the other sex what went on at their same-sex Seminars.  This also is a characteristic of a Cult. 

The theme we consistently find when we look at both the "His" and "Hers" books Smalley writes is that men are to submit to Smalley's Family Scapegoat model while women are to make their "feelings" clear, and demand the husband commit to keeping her "feelings" his top priority if his marriage is to continue.  We describe Smalley's model for women as that of the Family Narcissist, or very often,  the family Sadist.

Add to this Brandt's anti-Biblical doctrine that "Anger is a Sin"  and that a "Godly Woman" will not tolerate being around "sin" and you have a recipe for lots of Emotional Battery and sadistic Anthropophagia..

To the Smalley's and Brandts of the world, you can confront their Lies with, "Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath", Jas 1:19, and

"Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath", Eph 4:26 and to PK's claim to "Spiritual Authority" and Tithing we say "No man can serve two masters", Mat 6:24 and recall the warnings about "Leadership" and "Tithing" in Israel demands a King  found in 1 Samuel 8

I Promise You Forever - Dr.<unearned> Gary Smalley

I Promise You Forever - Dr. Gary Smalley 1/3

I Promise You Forever - Dr. Gary Smalley 2/3

I Promise You Forever - Dr. Gary Smalley 3/3

James Dobson's "Focus on the Family":  Femi-Narcissists & Counter-Reformers

Christians have been perturbed in recent years by various strange people claiming to be in "Spiritual Authority" over the Fellowship and preaching the Bill Gothard / Gary Smalley doctrine that "Men are to blame for discord in the family" and women  are simply "Responders"  to their husband's "thoughtless abuses" when they drive him out of the house and out of the lives of their children. 

Dobson taught women in his audience Gary Smalley's version of "Femi-Narcissism" and that if they want to save their marriages, discontented  wives need to recognize that their husbands are at fault and to Separate from them.  Dobson tells wives of "unteachable" husbands to "Break your husband's heart" and to  "hold your husband's feet to the fire" until they became "teachable and accountable' to the "Spiritual Authority" God has put in place over him, the Pastor. 

These highlighted phrases Dobson repeated over and over into his female audience like mantras through the eighties and nineties. This is another Cultish characteristic of Dobson's Promise Keepers  Counter Reformation..  If you don't want to be divorced, guys, Dobson requires you to obey and swear allegiance to your Promise Keepers Pastor. 

To this we say, "You cannot serve two Masters!"  Matthew 6

Since Dobson and his guests started infecting his Listeners with his Femi-Narcisism, the rate of divorce among church people has TRIPLED, surpassing the population at large.  You are now FAR more likely be be divorced if you marry a church girl than if you marry and un-churched girl.


More: News:  James Dobson:  Femi-Narcisist Counter-Reformer;
Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer, Promise Keepers Cult;
News:  Rick Warren: Globalist Counter-Reformer, "Purpose Driven Cult";
Issues:  Forgiveness is NOT Compulsory;
Testimonials:  Prior, Byron: Sexual Abuse;
Issues:  Riplinger, Gail:  Westcott & Hort's New Age Bibles;
Funstuff:  Life of Christ, ESV

Rick Warren, Peter Drucker, Purpose Driven Church

Peter Drucker / Rick Warren /  Purpose Driven, 2000s

Peter Drucker / Rick Warren / Purpose Driven, - Google Search

Basically a reconstruction and extension of the Promise Keepers.  Building on the Gothard's & Promise Keeper's doctrines of "Spiritual' Authority", Purpose Driven added the doctrine that Church members interfering with the "God's Purpose", (that is the Pastor's Purpose) are to be marginalized and eliminated from the Community.  Secret "Pastor's Conferences" provided to teach how to take over the assets of existing churches, convert them to the Peter Drucker (Warren's "Mentor") model of greatest utility,  and eliminate Dissenters.  No refunds on Tithes.

The Purpose Driven methods are Peter Drucker version of Eugenics applied in a Church context..    The objective is to accomplish what Promise Keepers failed to do (build a Global Church by the Year 2000) and bring about "World Peace"

While applying Drucker's principles in a Corporate setting, it IS a responsibility of .management to protect the interests of the Stockholders, in a Church Setting Dricker's applicaton of Eugenics in the a Church Community is the Anti-Thesis of a Biblical Church. In Church, there is no payroll for which Utility can be Maximized (except the pastors), and Warren's  "Workers"  ARE the Share-holders.  The Maximum Utility of course will be achieved by eliminating completely the paid Pastors, and the building programs Purpose Driven Church (PDC) pastors require of a Christian community. 

Promise Keepers, 1990s

A Counter-Reformation "movement" in North American evangelical churches. 

Denominations are BAD.  Global Unity is good.  PKs will rectify Denominational Disunity by bringing all Churches under a single Authority, a "Unity of Command" <shiver!!!> by the Year 2000.  Church members have to learn to live under the "Spiritual' Authority" of the Pastors at PK Conferences, while Pastors  have to learn to live under the Authority of the united "Command" at the PK Pastor's Conferences. Promise Keepers Cult;   promise keepers - Google Search

Bill Gothard Ministries, 1980s

The fact that someone is the "Leader" designates them as "Gods" authority over your life.  Your religions duty as a Christian is to Submit to their "Spiritual' Authority".  If you disobey God's Authorities over your life, you will loose God's "Umbrella of Protection" and be punished by Evil of the World.

bill gothard - Google Search

Focus on the Family perpetuates the Lie that "Biblical Forgiveness" requires Victims Forgive unrepentant Perpetrators

Focus on the Family (Dr. James Dobson) - Broadcast Archives;
Focus on the Family Radio Broadcasts - Focus on the Family Canada

James Dobson is a well known psychologist, author, talk show host, and promoter of the Promise Keepers Cult.  He and his "Focus on the Family" organization and media present ideas like Compulsory Forgiveness  which he and his guests purport to be  "Biblical" or "Christian".

This writer believes  that the views Dobson and his guests promote are EXTREMELY DESTRUCTIVE to families experiencing Sexual Abuse, and are DEVASTATING to the mental health of sexual abuse Victims and their Recovery from Stockholme Syndrome Paradigm Shift (SSPS) or punishing their Spouse with the penalties they withheld from their Perpetrator.

Here are some of the assertions made on Dobson's "Focus on the Family" broadcast, many of which are LIES, misrepresenting what the Bible has to say ...

  1. "You have to walk in Forgiveness because the only other choice is to be Bitter".
  2. "If you don't Forgive you are only hurting your own health."
  3. "Don't tell anybody what <the Perp> did".
  4. "Don't let <the Perp> be afraid of you".
  5. "Don't let <the Perp> feel Guilty".
  6. "Total Forgiveness means <the Perp> doesn't even know what he did or how it affected you.
  7. "Forgiveness is not Reconciliation"
  8. "Forgiveness is not Forgetting"
  9. "Forgiveness has nothing to do with the other person, Forgiveness is something you do for yourself."

2010-07-23  RT Kendall on Focus On the Family discussing "Total Forgiveness";
2010-07-23  RT Kendall on Focus On the Family discussing "Total Forgiveness" Broadcast

It is truly incredible what these self described "Mighty Men of God" claim to be "Biblical" or "Christian".   Sadly Churches, supposedly a Refuge for the wounded, regularly become a "Den of Thieves and Robbers".  The marketplace of  "Money Changers" has become the "Book Sellers"

No wonder Pedophiles love to hang out in Churches!!!   Dobson & Co,'s "Garbage In, Garbage Out" (GIGO) products on these topics pervert Biblical vocabulary, pervert the Rights of the Afflicted, protect the Perps, distract Victims from seeking remedies for their losses, and burden already tormented victims of rape and sexual abuse by "Blaming the Victim" and sending them on an inner quest of SELF-scrutiny trapping the Victim into a decent into various Dissociative Disorders, Compulsive Lying, "Passive" Aggression, & deeper Mental Illness like Multiple Personality Disorder (MPD)

We are pleased to tell you however, these "Biblical" views are far from "Biblical" and appear to be a malicious compilation of "GIGO" Half-Truths carefully selected and arranged to teach an ANTI-Biblical position that precludes the Biblical pursuit of Vindication and Restoration of losses either by the Victim themselves or by their Appointee, their "Kinsmen Redeemer".  

FYI, in the event of a Victim's incapacitation,  the Bible teaches that a Kinsmen Redeemer was to pursue the prescribed rightful remedies against all wrongs on the Victim's behalf.

The following is are some examples what Jesus said about Forgiveness.  Sure there are verses that may drop the "if he repents", but to this we note that abbreviation of a full blown quotation is a normal and natural way in which we communicate.  If we didn't abbreviate, our conversations could never distill things down to a conclusion and terminate.  So, while we have to live with abbreviations all the time to function, we don't generally want to loose the conversational context of an abbreviation. 

Where there is a fuller discussion on a subject we think the fuller version is preferable and a  topical compilation on the is even better.  Two conversation are found in Luke 17 (ESV) and Matthew 18 (ESV).   In both, Forgiveness is PREDICATED upon Repentance of the Debtor. 

This is of course no big surprise and it is both sensible and a Biblical Theme.  Recall John the Baptists' "Repent an be Baptized for the Forgiveness of your Sins....  be Reconciled to God..." etc.

"1  And he said to his disciples, "Temptations to sin are sure to come, but woe to the one through whom they come! 2   It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck and he were cast into the sea than that he should cause one of these little ones to sin. 3  Pay attention to yourselves! If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him, 4  and if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, 'I repent,' you must forgive him."   Luke 17 (ESV)

"7   "Woe to the world for temptations to sin!  For it is necessary that temptations come, but woe to the one by whom the temptation comes!  ....  15  "If your brother sins against you  go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. 16   But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses.    ...  

"21  Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?" 22  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven! 

"23  "Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. 24  When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents "25 And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26  So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.' <He acknowledged his debt.>   27  And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt.

"28  But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii,  and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, 'Pay what you owe.' 29  So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you.'  <He acknowledged his debt>  30  He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt. 31  When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. 32  Then his master summoned him and said to him, 'You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. 33 And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?' 34  And in anger his master delivered him <who didn't forgive a repentant debtor> to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. 35   So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart."  Matthew 18 (ESV)

More: News:  James Dobson:  Femi-Narcisist Counter-Reformer;
Issues:  Forgiveness is NOT Compulsory;
Testimonials:  Frank, Jan:  Child Sex Abuse, Marrying a Survivor
News:  Kendall, Robert T:  Ultra-Toxic "Total-Forgiveness"
News:  Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer, Promise Keepers Cult;
News:  Rick Warren: Globalist Counter-Reformer, "Purpose Driven Cult";
Testimonials:  Prior, Byron: Sexual Abuse;
Issues:  Riplinger, Gail:  Westcott & Hort's New Age Bibles;
Funstuff:  Life of Christ, ESV

Gary Smalley's "If Only He knew"

Bill Gothard Mentee, Femi-Narcissist & Counter-Reformer with an unearned PhD

Gary Smalley - Google Search;
Gary Smalley - Google Video 

“Our goal as husbands should be to adjust our behavior so our wives won't have to react in anger.”


More:  News:  Smalley, Gary: Bill Gothard Mentee, Feminarcissist & Counter-Reformer;
News:  Bill Gothard: Counter Reformer;
News:  Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer, Promise Keepers Cult;
News:  Rick Warren: Globalist Counter-Reformer, "Purpose Driven Cult"

Enticement & Seduction Common Law Claims in Tort Precluded

Tort Claims Eliminated by Trudeau's "No Fault" Divorce & BC Statute

Enticement & Seduction laws - Google Search

Enticement law - Google Video;
Seduction law - Google Video

"Common law recognized two tort causes of action against third parties who interfered with the marriage relation: Enticement and Seduction.

"Prior to 1972, Enticement and Seduction were prohibited by Canadian Federal Law, facilitating Common Law Claims against Enticers & Seducers.

2004-11-17  Womens shelter bosses attempt lesbian seduction.mp3

More: Issues:  Enticement & Seduction;
Photos of Paul Stenquist
Issues:  No Fault Divorce;
Issues:  "Women's Shelter" Gulags:  Lesbian Brainwashing & Seduction Camps;

Steve Arterburn: Women of Faith Pimp

"Do you want to be right, or do you want to have sex tonight?"

Steve Arterburn - Google Search;
Steve Arterburn - Google Video

"Just tell him <your husband> you won't have sex with him until he reads my book"  

"<Husbands> Do you want to be right, or do you want to have sex tonight?" 

Steve at Women of Faith - Google Search

More:  News:  Arterburn,Steve:  "Do you want to have sex tonight?";
News:  James Dobson:  Counter-Reformer;
Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer, Promise Keepers Cult;
News:  Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer;
News:  Rick Warren: Globalist Counter-Reformer, "Purpose Driven Cult"

Bill Gothard & "Basic Youth Conflicts" Cult AKA "Basic Life Principles"

"Chain of Command" hierarchy of "Spiritual Authority", Counter Reformer, Mentor of Gary Smalley

Bill Gothard - Google Search;
Bill Gothard - Google Video

"You must not tell your family what we talked about here at BYC seminars, or let anyone but our Alumni see our printed materials"

"The reason why Families are failing is because men have failed to assume God's role of Spiritual Leadership in their Families"

"Former" Roman Catholic, Bill Gothard's teachings are still being taught as "Biblical" by his Mentee Gary Smalley at Smalley's Promise Keepers and Women of Faith conferences where men and women-  no matter what their age - are still being separated and indoctrinated separately. Gothard has never married, but is a self-professed "Family & Relationships Expert"

Gothard's book Institute in Basic Youth Conflicts : Research in Principles of Life after thirty years of official secrecy is available for sale from time to time in the after-market by some who forgot their Oaths at the IBLP conferences.

Cult characteristics - Google Search;
Counter-Reformation - Google Search 

More:  News:  Bill Gothard: Counter Reformer;
Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer, Promise Keepers Cult;
News:  Rick Warren: Globalist Counter-Reformer, "Purpose Driven Cult"

James Dobson's "Focus on the Family"

Feminarcissists &

"Biblical Forgiveness requires Victims Forgive unrepentant Perpetrators" <a LIE!!>

"If a man will not submit the the Spiritual Authority God has placed over him - thePastor -, his wife should leave him to break his heart and hold his feet to the fire until he becomes Teachable and Accountable to the Pastor."

Promise Keepers - Google Search
Cult characteristics - Google Search;
Counter-Reformation - Google Search 

More:  News:  James Dobson:  Counter-Reformer;
Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer, Promise Keepers Cult;
Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer;
News:  Rick Warren: Globalist Counter-Reformer, "Purpose Driven Cult"

Robert T Kendall, "Charismatic" Preacher

 RT Kendall's Ultra-Toxic "Total-Forgiveness"

dr. r.t. kendall, total-forgiveness - Google Search;
dr. r.t. kendall, total-forgiveness - Google Video

"You have to forgive me."

"You have to walk in Forgiveness because the only other choice is to be Bitter".  

"Don't tell anybody what <the Perp> did".

"Don't let <the Perp> be afraid of you".

"Don't let <the Perp> feel Guilty".

"Total Forgiveness means <the Perp> doesn't even know what he did or how it affected you.

"Forgiveness is not Reconciliation"

"Forgiveness is not Forgetting"

"Forgiveness has nothing to do with the other person."

More:  News:  Kendall, Robert T:  Ultra-Toxic "Total-Forgiveness";
News:  James Dobson:  Femi-Narcisist Counter-Reformer;
Issues:  Forgiveness is NOT Compulsory;
Testimonials:  Frank, Jan:  Child Sex Abuse, Marrying a Survivor
News:  Bill McCartney:  Globalist Counter-Reformer, Promise Keepers Cult;
News:  Rick Warren: Globalist Counter-Reformer, "Purpose Driven Cult";
Testimonials:  Prior, Byron: Sexual Abuse;
Issues:  Riplinger, Gail:  Westcott & Hort's New Age Bibles;
Funstuff:  Life of Christ, ESV

Peck, Dr. Scott:  "People of the Lie"

Peck, Dr. Scott: "People of the Lie" - Google Search:
Peck, Dr. Scott: "People of the Lie" - Google Video

“because lying is both a cause and a manifestation of evil. It is partly by their lying that we recognize the evil.” 

If you don't want to go nuts in the Family Law Industry, you'd better prepare yourself to recognize Peck's previously undescribed psychological class of what he calls "Evil" people.   

More:  Issues:  Peck, Dr. Scott: "People of the Lie"
News:  Fry, Hedy "Queen of False Accusers" & SOW;
Issues:  Cools, Senator Anne: Lawyers lying in Court
Issues:  Femi-Narcissism
News:  Cross, Pamela: Feminist Law:  Female Accusers must not be required to face those they accuse of Violence;
News:  Beverly McLachlin:  Canada's Treasonous Chief Judge

"Stockholm Syndrome" Paradigm Shift, SSPS

"SSPS" creates a "Victim-Perpetrator" in severe cases of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

"If you can't BEAT THEM,
you gotta JOIN THEM"

Cult Leaders & Pedophiles use a variety of Brainwashing techniques to create SSPS in their Victims. In time their Victims may become MPD.

Sole Custody imposed on a high conflict divorce commonly results in children with SSPS.  It may be called "Parental Alienation Syndrome, PAS"

Gary Smalley's "Blame the Victim" theology seeks to ensnare husbands with SSPS.

Stockholm Syndrome Paradigm Shift - Google Search;
"Stockholm Syndrome" Paradigm Shift - Google Video

TWA Flight 847 - Google Search;
TWA Flight 847 - Google Video 

More:  Issues:  "Stockholm Syndrome" Paradigm Shift creates a "Victim-Perpetrator";
News:  Camp Fyrefly:  Sexual Deviants "mentoring" minor children
Issues:  Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD;
Issues:  Legal Abuse Syndrome;
Issues:  Affirmative Action;
News:  Smalley, Gary: Bill Gothard Mentee, Feminarcissist & Counter-Reformer
Issues:  Debtors' Prison Reinstituted;
Issues:  Passports Removed to Appease Femi-Nazis;
Issues:  Driver's Licenses removed to appease "Femi-Nazis";
Issues:  Imputed income;
Issues:  Child Support Fraud;



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