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Equal Parenting How To's

Equal Parenting is like a Three Layer Cake. 

"Without Cause or Consent, no Child shall be removed from a Natural Parent!!!

"Two Equal Parents may .. agree to unequal Parenting Time, but this does NOT impugn the Parental Authority of either Natural Parent relative to Third Party Interlopers.

1.  The Bottom Layer:  The Initial Equal Parenting Agreement

Initial Equal Parenting Agreement creating full time, all time equality of both natural parents, subordinate to no third parties (a Constitutional right ignored by most Family Courts); a series of tentative Parenting Timetables for each year and statement of intent, or  "Wishes"; the requirement that the tentative Parenting Timetable laid out there will be reviewed and finalized annually and incorporated into the Annual Parenting Supplement.  Parental authority and discretion is always equal and unaffected by inequalities of Parenting Time allocations.

2.  Middle Layer:  The Annual Supplement & its Parenting Timetable

At-A-Glance® Erasable Yearly Vertical Jumbo Wall Calendar, 48" x 32", 2005Yearly Annual Parenting Supplements for planning the school year and finalizing the Parenting Timetable for the upcoming  parenting year.  Parenting Timetable must meet the test for equality established in 1) the initial Equal Parenting Agreement.

3.  Top Layer:  Autonomy of Both Equal Parents on all matters not previously Constrained.

Parenting Timetable alternates all residual parenting questions between the two otherwise equal parents who are subordinate to no third parties.  Full autonomy of each parent during their Parenting Time as allotted in the agreed Parenting Timetable on all residual parenting questions not previously constrained by Covenants in the initial Equal Parenting Agreement, or the current Annual Parenting Supplement.  Full discretion on residual parenting with the Timetabled Parent, but flexibility encouraged and provided by Ad Hoc Agreements.

4.  Icing on the Cake.....

Forget about the Courts, and your Ex, and go have fun with your kids!!!







More:  About:  Equal Parenting How To's:  Three Layer Cake;
About:  Grandparents in Equal Parenting;
About:  EPR = Equal Parenting Roundups;
About: EPT =  Equal Parenting Trek;
About:  EP Trek Generic Calendar:
Issues:  Kinship Families or Grandparents raising Children::

Father Suicide Directory







 Hester Lessard, Feminist Law, University of Victoria


"Heterosexual View of Parenthood must be ignored"

Lessard, Hester - Google Search;
Lessard, Hester: UVic Faculty of Law

"Trociuk is .. a disheartening endorsement of biological  concepts of parenthood  ... flawed .... it legitimizes a heterosexual view of the family.   ..   It must be ignored."


More: News:  Lessard, Hester - Heterosexual view of Parenthood must be ignored
Erin PizzeyNews:  Smith, Judge Daphne, BCSC, for Child Trafficking;
Issus:  Trociuk, Darrell;
Issues:  Child Trafficking, Canadian;
Testimonials:  Rick Fredrickson of Saskatoon

BC Judge Mary Southin backs Pedophilia & Sexual  Solicitation of Children

"Fathers have no rights"....

"Society's attitudes toward child pornography may prove as fleeting as views in an earlier age on homosexuality."

Mary Southin, judge - Google Search;
Judge Mary Southin - Google Video

Judge Mary Southin is reported to dress always in black, has her Chambers painted black, and each October 31, has various decorative Black Candles.

More:  News:  BC Judge Mary Southin backs Pedophilia, Solicitation of Children for Sexual Activities;
News:  Crowley, Aleister:  Luciferian Freemasonry, Homosexual Pedophilia & Pederasty;
News:  Pike, Albert: Luciferian Freemasonry;
News:  Helena Blavatsky (1831–1891), Lesbian Founder of Theosophical Society & Godmother of New Age Movement;
News:  Westcott & Hort vs. Textus Receptus for Bible Translation;
News:  Georgia Guide Stones: Global De-Population;
News:  Lucifer / Lucis Trust;

David Ramsay of Prince George: BC Judge & Pedophile

BC Judge David Ramsay: - Google Search;
BC Judge David Ramsay: - Google Videos

This is a Judge practicing his sexual orientation for decades while on the BC Bench.  It is inconceivable that the Law Enforcement officers and other Judges were unaware of all his activities.  Law Enforcement Officers, are of course unable to act without the support of the Judiciary.

More:  News:  Ramsay, Judge David;
 Testimonials:   Earle, Shane: Mount Cashel Orphange, NL;
Testimonials:  Prior, Byron: Sexual Abuse;
Testimonials:  Earle, Shane: Mount Cashel;;
Testimonials: Samson, Pierre:  Duplessis Orphans, QU
News:  Mount Cashel Orphanage, St. John's NL;
News:  Duplessis Orphans:  Nazi Experiments Orphange, NL
Issues:  Boys Of St. Vincent <Mount Cashel, NL>;
Issues:  Judicial Freemasonry
Issues:  Judicial Interpretation
Issues: Child Trafficking by Public Officers & Judges

Erin Pizzey, Founder of the Women's Shelter Movement: 

Erin Pizzey

"Why I loathe feminism... and believe it will ultimately destroy the family",
"Feminism began with Marxist Lesbian University Professors and their students"

Erin Pizzey - Google Search
Erin Pizzey - Google Videos

2008-02-14  Erin Pizzey on KFBK talk radio (Sacramento, California)

Erin Pizzey is  the founder of the women's shelter movement and of the first modern women's refuge (1971, Chiswick, London, England)

More:  Issues:  Pizzey, Erin: Women's Shelter Scam;
Issues:  "Women's Shelter" Gulags:  Lesbian Brainwashing & Seduction Camps
Issues:  Cools, Senator Anne: Lying Lawyers;
News:  Liberal Hedy Fry / Status of Women (SOW):
Issues:  Pedophiles Fear Dads;
Issuess:  False Accusations;
Issues:  Domestic Violence Fraud
Issues:  Child Trafficking by Public Officers & Judges

Warren Farrell:  Why Men Earn More, Myth of Male Power

Warren Farrell - Google Search
Warren Farrell - Google Videos

More:  Issues:  Warren Farrell:  Why Men Earn More, Myth of Male Power

Hedy Fry's Status of Women, "SOW",  KILL IT, KILL IT FAST!!!!

Hedy Fry's Status of Women - Google Search;
Status of Women, sow - Google Video

 

The university community tells us that at least one of the Status of Women university profs is not just a run of the mill Communist...   she's a self professed MAOIST!!!   The difference we're told is that a MAOIST believes in killing her opponents.  Recall all of the FTSOTC Panelists had multiple Death Threats against them.

We say it is Hedy Fry, and these "Second Wave Feminists" / Status of Women / Women's Studies types that need to be eradicated from tax funded positions and be forced to make Reparations to the thousands of Fathers and their families whose lives who have been destroyed by them since the sixties.  We need also the restoration of the Enticement & Seduction provisions of Common Law which these SOWs had struck by Statute.

More:  Issues:  SOW = Status of Women, KILL IT!!!!;
Testimonials:  Wiebe, Ken;
News:  SOW = Status of Women, Father Hatred
News:  Hedy Fry:  Queen of False Accusers, Status of Women (SOW) Chief

Darrin White, RIP of Prince George, BC

Death by Judicial Kleptomania - Manslaughter, Suicide, March 2000

Darrin White, suicide, Prince George - Google Search;
Darrin White, suicide, Prince George - Google Video

"Darren White died in March of 2000 by his own hand. BC Supreme Court Master Doug Baker had just ordered Darren to pay $2,071 per month in child and spousal support. His monthly income at the time of that order was only $950 after taxes.  

..He was also paying $439 a month to support an older child from a previous marriage.

... No one would listen to my father , no one would give him a chance to speak. ... My dad was an abused husband, he was abused by his wife, and the justice system.  ... He was a kind man who fought a good fight but no matter what he did or said, he could never win with this system."

More...   Testimonials: Darren White, RIP
Testimonials:  Mark Dexel, RIP of Kamloops, BC;
Testimonials:  Manley, Perry:  RIP
Testimonials:  Jeffery, Hal & Danica
Issues:  Custody Orders not Enforced;
Issues:  Parental Alienation Syndrome;
Issues:  Imputed income;
Issues:  Child Support Fraud;
Issues:  Debtors' Prison Reinstituted

Debtor's Prison Reinstituted

Debtor's Prison, abolished in 1869, but now reinstituted to appease "Femi-Nazis"

Debtor's Prison - Google Search;
Debtors Prison - Google Video;

The common practice in BC Courts when Fathers do not pay Child Support - which most of the time is merely Imputed - is to send non-paying Father to Prison until he or his family members pay the fees imposed by the Judge. 

1869-xx-xx Debtors Act 1869 (c.62), United Kingdom

Even when mothers agree that Child Support should no longer be paid, we find that the Family Enforcement agencies, which are private contractors functioning as Bounty Hunters, typically refuse to end their claim on the father's income,.

More:  Issues:  Debtors's Prison Reinstituted;
Issues:  Passports Removed to Appease Femi-Nazis;
Issues:  Driver's Licenses removed to appease "Femi-Nazis";
Testimonials:  Jeffery, Hal & Danica;
Issues:  Imputed income;
Issues:  Child Support Fraud;

Byron Prior:  Adult Child of Prostitute / Child Pimp Mother

Newfoundland's protection of Pedophiles in Public Service

2008-09-16 PRIOR: Why wont anyone hear me Mission Unstoppable.mp3

Byron Prior - Google Search;
Byron Prior - Google Videos

Byron Prior is an Adult Child of Sexual Abuse who is breaking the "Conspiracy of Silence" of his family's Perpetrator. 

EPT: PRIOR, Byron, Protection of Pedophiles in Public Service, 2006

DISCUSSION-EPT: PRIOR, Byron, Protection of Pedophiles in Public Service



 

More:  Testimonials:  Prior, Byron: Sexual Abuse;
Testimonials:  Mount Cashel Orphanage, St. John's NL;
Issues:  Boys Of St. Vincent <Mount Cashel, NL>
News:  Ramsay, Judge David BC Judge & Pedophile
News:  Hickman, T. Alex, NL Judge, alleged Pedophile
Testimonials:   Earle, Shane: Mount Cashel Orphange, NL;
Testimonials: Samson, Pierre:  Duplessis Orphans, QU
News:  Duplessis Orphans
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Issues: Child Trafficking by Public Officers & Judges;
Issues:  Judicial Freemasonry;
News:  Crowley, Aleister:  Luciferian Freemasonry;
News:  Pike, Albert: Luciferian Freemasonry

Dr. Rick Lohstroh, RIP August 2004

Mother Assisted Patricide:  Murdered by 10 year old Son with Mom's gun, Galveston, TX

Rick Lohstroh, murder - Google Search;
Rick Lohstroh, murder - Google Video
Deborah Geisler - Google Search

"Lohstroh, a 41-year-old emergency-room doctor, was shot in the back Friday when he went to pick up his two sons at their mother's home.  Police say the 10-year-old boy climbed into the back of his father's sport utility vehicle, fired a pistol several times through the back of the driver's seat and then ran back inside the home."


More...  Testimonials:  Lohstroh, Dr. Rick, RIP:   Mother Assisted Patricide;
Testimonials:  Winkler, Matthew-RIP:  Immunity for Homicidal Moms;
 Issues:  "Stockholm Syndrome" Paradigm Shift creates a "Victim-Perpetrator";
Issues:  Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD;
Issues:  Legal Abuse Syndrome;

Swanson Jeremy, Ottawa


Western Standard, Monday, June 13, 2005
Page: 46 Section: News; Byline: Candis McLean
http://www.geocities.com/swannie52/Swanson-Activist.html

Fathers under fire: Dads who own guns are increasingly being labeled "dangerous" by therapists, cops and ex-wives who want to keep them from their kids

Only a few years ago Jeremy Swanson was living the great Canadian dream. He had a wife, with a growing business of her own, three kids, a home in Ottawa's exclusive Hunt Club district and a good job in the civil service. Even better, as a top official at the Canadian War Museum, he was living every military buff's dream. He had won employee of the year in 1996, after arranging a life-sized re-enactment of a Second World War air raid, replete with pyrotechnic explosions and Lancaster bombers swooping over the nation's capital. The event was such a hit, Swanson not only won accolades within his department, but, thanks to his dedication to preserving military history, he received word he had been nominated to receive the Order of Canada in 1995.

Today, stuck in a YMCA in downtown Ottawa, Swanson hasn't seen his kids in nearly two years. He's not allowed to, unless both he and his kids undergo a series of psychological tests. The lover of all Canadian military history has been branded a dangerous criminal--not because of anything he's done, but because of what he owns. "They're my children," says Swanson. "Who are these faceless people? I'm speaking for hundreds of men who are being treated as second-class citizens and dangerous criminals." Swanson's Canadian dream turned into a great Canadian nightmare in December 2000, when he traveled to his native South Africa for a much-needed holiday and was served with divorce papers while overseas. "Should you attempt to enter the house or create a disturbance on the property," the notice read, "Mrs. Swanson has been advised to notify the police." The public servant and family man was about to find out what it's like to be branded a potential murderer--simply, he says, because he happened to own guns. And he's not alone: increasingly, say family law experts, firearms are taking centre stage in custody and divorce disputes. With the anti-gun atmosphere in Canada today, almost anyone going through a difficult divorce can be classified a potential threat by law enforcement agencies if he happens to own weapons. And that not only gives the other party the upper hand, it can ruin the gun owner's life forever.

It was while attending counseling, several months after returning to Canada, that Swanson says he first heard his wife of 16 years tell a psychologist that she was "scared" of him. In August 2001, he learned from his 11-year-old son that a few months earlier police had removed Swanson's collection of antique guns from the house. The firearms, a hobby collection pieced together over 16 years, consisted of four legal firearms: two antique firearms presented as gifts from a grateful veteran, one item bought for historic value, and another brought legally into Canada from South Africa as part of Swanson's immigration property list. They were, Swanson maintains, always stored in a regulation, double-locked, government-approved metal safe in the basement. A qualified firearms safety officer by virtue of his military training during conscription in the South Africa civil war, Swanson says he was shocked when disclosure of police documents revealed that when his wife called in the police, she stated her "fear" of having the items in the home.

But according to notes from police, the weapons had not been securely locked up when they were called in to investigate. Though it had been months since he had been in the house, Swanson's wife led officers to a machete under the bed she shared with her husband (he maintains it had always been in the garage with the camping equipment), as well as other knives in the room. Bayonets from both world wars were found in various rooms. The bomb squad was called in after police misidentified a bag of empty brass shell casings as a "bag of loose ammunition lying on the floor," according to officers' notes, and an inert hand grenade--which previously had sported the humorous label: "For service, please pull pin"--was identified by police as a live bomb. BB guns were seized and logged as rifles and a replica seventeenth-century musket, the kind that hangs over the fireplace, was recorded as an "assault weapon." The gun safe in the basement was open, though Susan Swanson was in possession of both sets of keys. The entire collection was labeled a "mini-arsenal." Records show that Susan Swanson phoned and requested the firearms be removed because of her "fear" of them. "So what is meant by 'fear' if the guns are locked away and she's lived with them like that for years?" asks Terrance Green, Swanson's lawyer. "What fear could she have when she knew she had the only keys [to the safe]?"

Police would later correct the erroneous details in their report, but Swanson says his estranged wife exploited his hobby of collecting military paraphernalia to paint a picture of him as an aggressive gun nut--even though he had no prior criminal record and there is no record of any domestic violence (Susan Swanson and her lawyer both declined to be interviewed for this story). It was the children's psychologist who recommended that authorities seize the weapons, because, according to police documents, she feared a "murder-suicide situation," although she had never examined Swanson himself. Another psychologist, after interviewing Susan, recommended the firearms not be returned to Swanson due to his "psychological status." "Both these psychologists made statements that influenced action by the police and yet I was never their patient and had never been examined by them at any stage," Swanson says. "How were they qualified to make such damning and influential statements?" According to a report from Ottawa psychiatrist Dr. Anne Galipeau, who examined Swanson, the former bureaucrat posed "no danger to himself or others."

After the weapons' seizure, Swanson was ordered to appear before a judge on a police submission that he be declared a "dangerous person" by the court. "I was surrounded by drug dealers, prostitutes, pimps, armed robbers, and even a man in chains, defending my character without a charge being levelled against me," he says. The judge found that there was no evidence to have him declared dangerous and ordered the firearms and all confiscated items returned to him. His police record, however, still identifies him as a Category 4--the same level as those guilty of assault and bank robberies.

Painting gun owners as unstable potential threats is part of a trend in nasty separation battles, explains one family lawyer, who asked not to be identified. "In an ugly divorce, the first thing you have to do is put the spouse in a bad light," she says. "A common question is, 'Has there ever been any sexual abuse of the children, has he ever threatened you, ever hit you, anything you're scared of, can you even insinuate that he threatened you? Then we can probably get him out of the house and have him look bad in a court battle." The ethics walk a fine line, she adds. "You don't say, 'Make it up,' but, 'Looking back, can you, in hindsight, say it may have been construed as a threat?"

Men's advocate Tamas Koplyay, who works as a management professor at the Universite du Quebec, says it's all part of the business of divorce these days. "Making daddy look bad is the grand strategy for getting sole custody," he says. With custody rights, he says, ex-wives can ensure they have their hands "on the cash machine for life." In Canada, says Koplyay, the government's gun-control zeal has resulted in a vilification of gun owners. "Gun registry laws are a key weapon in creating guilt by association." Ross Bailey, an executive-at-large with the Parents' Coalition of B.C., notes that there are few repercussions for people who stretch the truth about their spouse's gun habits. "False allegations are not against the law," says Bailey. "You can lie on an affidavit and you don't get called on it like you do in criminal court. They can say, 'Yes he does have guns and he has threatened me.' The fact is, the more you lie, the more you get."

Regina's Perry Friedt says that an unregistered .22 rifle that once belonged to his grand-father and hadn't been fired in 30 years was still enough for his wife to be able to portray him as a threat. On March 11, Friedt and his 74-year-old mother ended a 16-day hunger strike in front of the Saskatchewan legislature to protest the unfair treatment he believes he'd received at the hands of the province's family court system--including the fact that he has been unable to see his four-year-old daughter, Emma, for a year-and- a-half. Friedt's wife told authorities that, with the gun in the house, she was afraid her husband might harm her. "As a result of the fact that Friedt may have been a danger to her, she was able to have him removed from the house," says Friedt's lawyer, Leonard Young. Friedt's estranged wife told the court that she had filed previous complaints against Friedt, a truck driver, but Young has been unable to locate any records of prior incidents. "My position is that it never occurred, and that she used information that was detrimental to him that shouldn't have been used to further her goals," says Young. On May 14, a judge permitted Friedt to see his daughter, unsupervised, for the first time in 18 months. "I am satisfied that Emma is not at risk in her father's care," ruled Judge Ryan Froslie.

David Tomlinson, the Edmonton-based president of Canada's National Firearms Association, says he receives at least 60 calls a year from men whose partners have claimed, after a nasty argument, that they are worried about the fact that he has firearms. "Police then come and seize all firearms because if they didn't and something went wrong, the media would crucify them," says Tomlinson. "Then they leave all the knives in the kitchen." Once a seizure has been made, it's up to the guns' owner to seek a court order to have them returned. "Going to court, you're looking at lawyer fees of $1,000 to $5,000, which frequently exceeds the value of the [confiscated] property," Tomlinson says. Usually, the husbands have no option but to give up the guns.

But even going out and buying replacements can be tough for someone who has had them taken during a divorce dispute, says Bailey. With the new Firearms Act provisions, passed under Bill C-68, applicants to the federal gun registry require the signature of a spouse--or even an ex-spouse--on the form. And a clause in the act prohibits anyone from owning a gun that constitutes a "real or perceived threat." That often means an estranged wife can stand in the way of someone getting a gun. "When you get a driver's licence or occupation licence, do you have to list the people you've lived with over the past two years?" asks Bailey.

Not all the cases involve wives accusing husbands, says Green; he knows of one case where a man told authorities he was fearful of his wife, blocking her from renewing her gun licences. But in the overwhelming majority of cases like this, the gun owner is male. With what he sees as widespread abuse of the "real or perceived threat" clause in the act, Green says it's only fair that authorities become more rigorous in investigating the allegations. "It's very easy to say you're afraid," he says. "Then the licence is denied and the person has to go to court to prove through medical reports that he or she is not unstable and that there is no reason for the other party to have fears." Green says there should be clear penalties for anyone who knowingly makes false allegations about someone being a threat.

Senator Anne Cools remembers seeing exactly these sorts of problems with the gun registry a decade ago, when C-68 was still being contemplated by the federal government. In 1995 Cools told the Senate: "Law-abiding citizens view the government's initiative, Bill C-68, as creating a thought process which some will promote as the new Canadian morality: to wit, firearms are inherently evil and so are their owners." She pointed out that feminist groups had persuaded then justice minister Allan Rock "that women and children live in a constant state of threat and fear of death inflicted by men with firearms in their homes," and that "central to the belief system of radical gender feminism is the maxim that firearms constitute the phallic symbol of male violence, and are symbols of the patriarchal society . . . [where] the allowance of guns is a sign of misogyny." Again, in 1998, when the government revisited legislation on access and custody issues, Cools says, certain groups made the same case. But, she remembers, there was no data or statistics to back any of the claims of male propensities to violence--only anecdotal evidence and appeals to panic. "The Justice Department has been the leader in social engineering and this 10-year period of time has brought forth a lot of public policy premised on the inherent deficiency of men," Cools says today. "The underlying proposition everywhere is that every man is a beast just waiting to hurt his wife or his children."

The fact that Canadian gun laws are so malleable that they can be misused as a weapon during bitter divorce disputes, says Cools, is evidence of poorly written legislation. "A poorly scripted law can be an invitation to mischief," she says. "That's why the crafting of all law in general is so important: it should only capture the mischief that it is intended to capture. It should not be allowed to capture other problems or to invite unprincipled or unscrupulous individuals to bring vexatious or false charges against others." The federal government, she says, bears at least part of the responsibility of making life miserable for hundreds of law-abiding gun owners who have found themselves stripped of their basic rights even to see their own children. Says Cools: "The natural disposition of people in power whenever one makes a law and arms one group of people with a club to beat the other, that club invariably will be used."

 

"It was 19 years ago on May 12th when I held my daughter in this picture. She was only 3 days old and about to come home for the first time. She was as light as a leaf and I thought she might blow away she was so small. I was so proud. She was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen and I loved her from the minute I saw her-and maybe even before that! I will always love her-even while I have not seen her for three years. The criminals who administer family law took her away from me at the stroke of a pen in response to lies and perjury and the inevitable mighty dollar. But my "little one" lives on in my memory and I keep this picture to remind me that I was once a Dad who simply lived and loved and tried to be and do the best I could. If I don't make it through this for any reason I ask you all to remember this Dad and his daughter and all of your own children too. Please fight on. Fight for us all and more than anything else" ...   Jeremy Swanson

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


     
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