Equal Parenting How To's

Equal Parenting is like a Three Layer Cake.
"Without
Cause or Consent,
no Child shall be removed
from a Natural Parent!!!
"Two Equal Parents may .. agree to unequal Parenting
Time, but this does NOT impugn the Parental Authority of either
Natural Parent relative to Third Party Interlopers.
1. The Bottom Layer: The Initial
Equal Parenting Agreement
Initial
Equal Parenting Agreement creating full time, all time equality
of both natural parents, subordinate to no third parties (a
Constitutional right ignored by most Family Courts); a series of
tentative
Parenting Timetables for each year and statement of intent, or
"Wishes"; the requirement that the tentative Parenting Timetable
laid out there will be reviewed and finalized annually and
incorporated into the
Annual Parenting Supplement. Parental authority and
discretion is always equal and unaffected by inequalities of
Parenting Time allocations.
2. Middle Layer: The Annual
Supplement & its Parenting Timetable
Yearly
Annual Parenting Supplements for planning the school year and
finalizing the
Parenting Timetable for the upcoming parenting year.
Parenting Timetable must meet the test for equality established
in 1) the initial Equal Parenting Agreement.
3. Top Layer: Autonomy of Both Equal
Parents on all matters not previously Constrained.
Parenting Timetable alternates all residual parenting questions
between the two otherwise equal parents who are subordinate to no
third parties. Full autonomy of each parent during their
Parenting Time as allotted in the agreed Parenting Timetable on all
residual parenting questions not previously constrained by Covenants
in the initial Equal Parenting Agreement, or the current Annual
Parenting Supplement. Full discretion on residual parenting
with the Timetabled Parent, but flexibility encouraged and provided
by Ad Hoc Agreements.
4. Icing on the Cake.....
Forget about the Courts ,
and your Ex, and go have fun with your kids!!!







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Hester Lessard, Feminist Law, University of
Victoria


"Heterosexual View of Parenthood must be
ignored"
Lessard, Hester - Google Search;
Lessard, Hester: UVic Faculty of Law
"Trociuk
is .. a disheartening endorsement of biological concepts of
parenthood ... flawed .... it legitimizes a heterosexual view
of the family. .. It must be ignored."





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Trociuk, Darrell;
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Child Trafficking, Canadian;
Testimonials: Rick
Fredrickson of Saskatoon |
David Ramsay of Prince George: BC Judge &
Pedophile

BC Judge David Ramsay: - Google Search;
BC Judge David Ramsay: - Google Videos
This is a Judge practicing his sexual orientation
for decades while on the BC Bench. It is inconceivable that
the Law Enforcement officers and other Judges were unaware of all
his activities. Law Enforcement Officers, are of course unable
to act without the support of the Judiciary.
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David;
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Earle, Shane: Mount Cashel Orphange, NL;
Testimonials: Prior, Byron:
Sexual Abuse;
Testimonials: Earle,
Shane: Mount Cashel;;
Testimonials: Samson, Pierre:
Duplessis Orphans, QU
News: Mount Cashel
Orphanage, St. John's NL;
News: Duplessis Orphans:
Nazi Experiments
Orphange, NL
Issues: Boys Of St.
Vincent <Mount Cashel, NL>;
Issues: Judicial
Freemasonry
Issues:
Judicial Interpretation
Issues: Child
Trafficking by Public Officers & Judges |
Darrin White,
RIP of Prince George,
BC

Death by
Judicial Kleptomania
- Manslaughter, Suicide, March
2000
Darrin White, suicide, Prince George - Google Search;
Darrin White, suicide, Prince George - Google Video
"Darren
White died in March of 2000 by his own hand. BC Supreme Court
Master Doug Baker had just ordered Darren to pay
$2,071
per month in child and spousal support. His monthly income at
the time of that order was only $950 after taxes.
..He
was also paying $439 a month to support an
older child from a previous
marriage.
...
No one would listen to my
father , no one would give him a chance to speak. ... My dad was an
abused husband, he was abused by his wife, and the justice system.
... He was a kind man who fought a good fight but no matter what he
did or said, he could never win with this system. "
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Jeffery,
Hal & Danica
Issues:
Custody Orders not Enforced;
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Parental Alienation Syndrome;
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income;
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Support Fraud;
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Prison Reinstituted |
Byron Prior: Adult Child of
Prostitute / Child Pimp Mother

Newfoundland's protection of Pedophiles in Public
Service
2008-09-16 PRIOR: Why wont anyone hear me Mission Unstoppable.mp3
Byron Prior - Google Search;
Byron Prior - Google Videos
Byron Prior is an
Adult Child of Sexual Abuse who is breaking the
"Conspiracy of Silence" of his family's Perpetrator.

EPT: PRIOR, Byron, Protection of Pedophiles in Public Service, 2006
DISCUSSION-EPT: PRIOR, Byron, Protection of Pedophiles in Public
Service



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David BC Judge & Pedophile
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Hickman, T. Alex, NL Judge, alleged Pedophile
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Samson, Pierre: Duplessis Orphans, QU
News: Duplessis Orphans ;
Issues: Child
Trafficking by Public Officers & Judges;
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Freemasonry;
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Albert: Luciferian Freemasonry |
Dr. Rick Lohstroh, RIP August
2004

Mother Assisted Patricide:
Murdered by 10 year old Son with Mom's gun, Galveston, TX
Rick Lohstroh, murder - Google Search;
Rick Lohstroh, murder - Google Video
Deborah Geisler - Google Search
"Lohstroh, a 41-year-old
emergency-room doctor, was shot in the back Friday when he went to
pick up his two sons at their mother's home. Police say the
10-year-old boy climbed into the back of his father's sport utility
vehicle, fired a pistol several times through the back of the
driver's seat and then ran back inside the home."

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Swanson Jeremy, Ottawa
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Western
Standard,
Monday, June 13, 2005
Page: 46 Section: News;
Byline: Candis
McLean
http://www.geocities.com/swannie52/Swanson-Activist.html
Fathers under fire: Dads who
own guns are increasingly being labeled "dangerous" by therapists, cops and
ex-wives who want to keep them from their kids
Only a few
years ago Jeremy Swanson was living the great
Canadian dream. He had a wife, with a growing business of her own, three kids, a
home in Ottawa's exclusive Hunt Club district and a good job in the civil
service. Even better, as a top official at the Canadian War Museum, he was
living every military buff's dream. He had won employee of the year in 1996,
after arranging a life-sized re-enactment of a Second World War air raid,
replete with pyrotechnic explosions and Lancaster bombers swooping over the
nation's capital. The event was such a hit, Swanson
not only won accolades within his department, but, thanks to his dedication to
preserving military history, he received word he had been nominated to receive
the Order of Canada in 1995.
Today,
stuck in a YMCA in downtown Ottawa, Swanson
hasn't seen his kids in nearly two years. He's not allowed to, unless both he
and his kids undergo a series of psychological tests. The lover of all Canadian
military history has been branded a dangerous criminal--not because of anything
he's done, but because of what he owns. "They're my children," says
Swanson. "Who are these faceless people? I'm
speaking for hundreds of men who are being treated as second-class citizens and
dangerous criminals." Swanson's Canadian dream
turned into a great Canadian nightmare in December 2000, when he traveled to his
native South Africa for a much-needed holiday and was served with divorce papers
while overseas. "Should you attempt to enter the house or create a disturbance
on the property," the notice read, "Mrs. Swanson
has been advised to notify the police." The public servant and family man was
about to find out what it's like to be branded a potential murderer--simply, he
says, because he happened to own guns. And he's not alone: increasingly, say
family law experts, firearms are taking centre stage in custody and divorce
disputes. With the anti-gun atmosphere in Canada today, almost anyone going
through a difficult divorce can be classified a potential threat by law
enforcement agencies if he happens to own weapons. And that not only gives the
other party the upper hand, it can ruin the gun owner's life forever.
It was
while attending counseling, several months after returning to Canada, that
Swanson says he first heard his wife of 16
years tell a psychologist that she was "scared" of him. In August 2001, he
learned from his 11-year-old son that a few months earlier police had removed
Swanson's collection of antique guns from the
house. The firearms, a hobby collection pieced together over 16 years, consisted
of four legal firearms: two antique firearms presented as gifts from a grateful
veteran, one item bought for historic value, and another brought legally into
Canada from South Africa as part of Swanson's
immigration property list. They were, Swanson
maintains, always stored in a regulation, double-locked, government-approved
metal safe in the basement. A qualified firearms safety officer by virtue of his
military training during conscription in the South Africa civil war,
Swanson says he was shocked when disclosure of
police documents revealed that when his wife called in the police, she stated
her "fear" of having the items in the home.
But according to notes from
police, the weapons had not been securely locked up when they were called in to
investigate. Though it had been months since he had been in the house,
Swanson's wife led officers to a machete under
the bed she shared with her husband (he maintains it had always been in the
garage with the camping equipment), as well as other knives in the room.
Bayonets from both world wars were found in various rooms. The bomb squad was
called in after police misidentified a bag of empty brass shell casings as a
"bag of loose ammunition lying on the floor," according to officers' notes, and
an inert hand grenade--which previously had sported the humorous label: "For
service, please pull pin"--was identified by police as a live bomb. BB guns were
seized and logged as rifles and a replica seventeenth-century musket, the kind
that hangs over the fireplace, was recorded as an "assault weapon." The gun safe
in the basement was open, though Susan Swanson
was in possession of both sets of keys. The entire collection was labeled a
"mini-arsenal." Records show that Susan Swanson
phoned and requested the firearms be removed because of her "fear" of them. "So
what is meant by 'fear' if the guns are locked away and she's lived with them
like that for years?" asks Terrance Green, Swanson's
lawyer. "What fear could she have when she knew she had the only keys [to the
safe]?"
Police would later correct the
erroneous details in their report, but Swanson
says his estranged wife exploited his hobby of collecting military paraphernalia
to paint a picture of him as an aggressive gun nut--even though he had no prior
criminal record and there is no record of any domestic violence (Susan
Swanson and her lawyer both declined to be
interviewed for this story). It was the children's psychologist who recommended
that authorities seize the weapons, because, according to police documents, she
feared a "murder-suicide situation," although she had never examined
Swanson himself. Another psychologist, after
interviewing Susan, recommended the firearms not be returned to
Swanson due to his "psychological status."
"Both these psychologists made statements that influenced action by the police
and yet I was never their patient and had never been examined by them at any
stage," Swanson says. "How were they qualified
to make such damning and influential statements?" According to a report from
Ottawa psychiatrist Dr. Anne Galipeau, who examined
Swanson, the former bureaucrat posed "no danger to himself or others."
After the weapons' seizure,
Swanson was ordered to appear before a judge
on a police submission that he be declared a "dangerous person" by the court. "I
was surrounded by drug dealers, prostitutes, pimps, armed robbers, and even a
man in chains, defending my character without a charge being levelled against
me," he says. The judge found that there was no evidence to have him declared
dangerous and ordered the firearms and all confiscated items returned to him.
His police record, however, still identifies him as a Category 4--the same level
as those guilty of assault and bank robberies.
Painting gun owners as unstable
potential threats is part of a trend in nasty separation battles, explains one
family lawyer, who asked not to be identified. "In an ugly divorce, the first
thing you have to do is put the spouse in a bad light," she says. "A common
question is, 'Has there ever been any sexual abuse of the children, has he ever
threatened you, ever hit you, anything you're scared of, can you even insinuate
that he threatened you? Then we can probably get him out of the house and have
him look bad in a court battle." The ethics walk a fine line, she adds. "You
don't say, 'Make it up,' but, 'Looking back, can you, in hindsight, say it may
have been construed as a threat?"
Men's advocate Tamas Koplyay,
who works as a management professor at the Universite du Quebec, says it's all
part of the business of divorce these days. "Making daddy look bad is the grand
strategy for getting sole custody," he says. With custody rights, he says,
ex-wives can ensure they have their hands "on the cash machine for life." In
Canada, says Koplyay, the government's gun-control zeal has resulted in a
vilification of gun owners. "Gun registry laws are a key weapon in creating
guilt by association." Ross Bailey, an executive-at-large with the Parents'
Coalition of B.C., notes that there are few repercussions for people who stretch
the truth about their spouse's gun habits. "False allegations are not against
the law," says Bailey. "You can lie on an affidavit and you don't get called on
it like you do in criminal court. They can say, 'Yes he does have guns and he
has threatened me.' The fact is, the more you lie, the more you get."
Regina's Perry Friedt says that
an unregistered .22 rifle that once belonged to his grand-father and hadn't been
fired in 30 years was still enough for his wife to be able to portray him as a
threat. On March 11, Friedt and his 74-year-old mother ended a 16-day hunger
strike in front of the Saskatchewan legislature to protest the unfair treatment
he believes he'd received at the hands of the province's family court
system--including the fact that he has been unable to see his four-year-old
daughter, Emma, for a year-and- a-half. Friedt's wife told authorities that,
with the gun in the house, she was afraid her husband might harm her. "As a
result of the fact that Friedt may have been a danger to her, she was able to
have him removed from the house," says Friedt's lawyer, Leonard Young. Friedt's
estranged wife told the court that she had filed previous complaints against
Friedt, a truck driver, but Young has been unable to locate any records of prior
incidents. "My position is that it never occurred, and that she used information
that was detrimental to him that shouldn't have been used to further her goals,"
says Young. On May 14, a judge permitted Friedt to see his daughter,
unsupervised, for the first time in 18 months. "I am satisfied that Emma is not
at risk in her father's care," ruled Judge Ryan Froslie.
David Tomlinson, the
Edmonton-based president of Canada's National Firearms Association, says he
receives at least 60 calls a year from men whose partners have claimed, after a
nasty argument, that they are worried about the fact that he has firearms.
"Police then come and seize all firearms because if they didn't and something
went wrong, the media would crucify them," says Tomlinson. "Then they leave all
the knives in the kitchen." Once a seizure has been made, it's up to the guns'
owner to seek a court order to have them returned. "Going to court, you're
looking at lawyer fees of $1,000 to $5,000, which frequently exceeds the value
of the [confiscated] property," Tomlinson says. Usually, the husbands have no
option but to give up the guns.
But even going out and buying
replacements can be tough for someone who has had them taken during a divorce
dispute, says Bailey. With the new Firearms Act provisions, passed under Bill
C-68, applicants to the federal gun registry require the signature of a
spouse--or even an ex-spouse--on the form. And a clause in the act prohibits
anyone from owning a gun that constitutes a "real or perceived threat." That
often means an estranged wife can stand in the way of someone getting a gun.
"When you get a driver's licence or occupation licence, do you have to list the
people you've lived with over the past two years?" asks Bailey.
Not all the cases involve wives
accusing husbands, says Green; he knows of one case where a man told authorities
he was fearful of his wife, blocking her from renewing her gun licences. But in
the overwhelming majority of cases like this, the gun owner is male. With what
he sees as widespread abuse of the "real or perceived threat" clause in the act,
Green says it's only fair that authorities become more rigorous in investigating
the allegations. "It's very easy to say you're afraid," he says. "Then the
licence is denied and the person has to go to court to prove through medical
reports that he or she is not unstable and that there is no reason for the other
party to have fears." Green says there should be clear penalties for anyone who
knowingly makes false allegations about someone being a threat.
Senator Anne Cools remembers
seeing exactly these sorts of problems with the gun registry a decade ago, when
C-68 was still being contemplated by the federal government. In 1995 Cools told
the Senate: "Law-abiding citizens view the government's initiative, Bill C-68,
as creating a thought process which some will promote as the new Canadian
morality: to wit, firearms are inherently evil and so are their owners." She
pointed out that feminist groups had persuaded then justice minister Allan Rock
"that women and children live in a constant state of threat and fear of death
inflicted by men with firearms in their homes," and that "central to the belief
system of radical gender feminism is the maxim that firearms constitute the
phallic symbol of male violence, and are symbols of the patriarchal society . .
. [where] the allowance of guns is a sign of misogyny." Again, in 1998, when the
government revisited legislation on access and custody issues, Cools says,
certain groups made the same case. But, she remembers, there was no data or
statistics to back any of the claims of male propensities to violence--only
anecdotal evidence and appeals to panic. "The Justice Department has been the
leader in social engineering and this 10-year period of time has brought forth a
lot of public policy premised on the inherent deficiency of men," Cools says
today. "The underlying proposition everywhere is that every man is a beast just
waiting to hurt his wife or his children."
The fact that Canadian gun laws
are so malleable that they can be misused as a weapon during bitter divorce
disputes, says Cools, is evidence of poorly written legislation. "A poorly
scripted law can be an invitation to mischief," she says. "That's why the
crafting of all law in general is so important: it should only capture the
mischief that it is intended to capture. It should not be allowed to capture
other problems or to invite unprincipled or unscrupulous individuals to bring
vexatious or false charges against others." The federal government, she says,
bears at least part of the responsibility of making life miserable for hundreds
of law-abiding gun owners who have found themselves stripped of their basic
rights even to see their own children. Says Cools: "The natural disposition of
people in power whenever one makes a law and arms one group of people with a
club to beat the other, that club invariably will be used."
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"It was 19 years ago on May 12th when I held my
daughter in this picture. She was only 3 days old and about to come home for the
first time. She was as light as a leaf and I thought she might blow away she was
so small. I was so proud. She was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen and I
loved her from the minute I saw her-and maybe even before that! I will always
love her-even while I have not seen her for three years. The criminals who
administer family law took her away from me at the stroke of a pen in response
to lies and perjury and the inevitable mighty dollar. But my "little one" lives
on in my memory and I keep this picture to remind me that I was once a Dad who
simply lived and loved and tried to be and do the best I could. If I don't make
it through this for any reason I ask you all to remember this Dad and his
daughter and all of your own children too. Please fight on. Fight for us all and
more than anything else" ... Jeremy
Swanson
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