Hal
was a Widower and had a daughter, Danica, from a previous marriage.
He then had two children with a new wife who left him when they were
toddlers. (She was reported to have taken up with her Courtenay
lawyer.) When our BC Family Courts put Hal through
it's torments of Imputed Income,
Gleaned Wages,
State Imposed Homelessness,
and
Debtor's Prison, they imposed these same torments on his
daughter Danica, then a Tween. Hal points out the Support Tables
assume the only children to support are the Payee's children.
You can see where that left Hal & Danica: homeless and
dependent on the kindnesses of neighbors.
EVERY other weekend for the past four and a half years, I've spent
three precious days with my two adolescent daughters. We play tennis
in summer, ski in winter, travel when the school schedule allows.
But no matter where we are, we're all keenly aware of the thin
membrane of secrecy that keeps us from being as close as we were
before their mom and I divorced. <Equal
Parenting eliminates this!!!>
Like most divorced fathers, I'm caught in
exactly the kind of nightmarish situation that experts on stress say
to avoid — a great deal of responsibility, but very little power.I'm
the major source of support for my children; my financial
obligations are set by the state, and my wages automatically
garnished. (If I lost my job tomorrow, and couldn't keep up with my
payments, a warrant for my arrest would be issued within two
months.) But my influence over how my daughters are being raised is
limited, sometimes by decisions their mother makes that I have no
input into, and sometimes by their allegiance to her when she and I
are at odds. ... They'll forget to tell me
some detail of their lives — or downright lie if they have to — so I
won't feel sad that I've missed something they shared with their
mom, or raise issue over some decision she's made with which I might
not agree. As a result, I sometimes come away from visits or phone
calls feeling shaken, saddened and angry. My ex and I
have been to court over support issues, and we've been to court over
custody issues, and the legal battles inevitably trap our children
in the middle and force them to choose sides. Sadly, this is exactly
what not to do if you want to foster a loving parent-child bond. In
a study by a child psychologist, ...
The first step toward fostering a father and child reunion is to
make private mediation of the parenting provisions (physical
custody, legal custody and visiting) the standard procedure.
Allowing parents the chance to negotiate their support — and
possibly give fathers more of a say in how their support is spent —
will decrease the vitriol, and let fathers feel more like parents,
not just paychecks.
Second, we need to enact and enforce
sensible penalties for interfering with visits. Jailing a mother
is no way to solve the dispute; neither are financial penalties
that hurt her ability to care for the child. But mediation —
perhaps compelled by the threat of financial penalty — might be
the solution. It's estimated that one in five children of
divorce has not seen his or her father in the past year. Without
substantial rethinking of our current support and custody law,
children will continue to be alienated from their fathers, and
lawyers will remain on hand to soak up the resulting legal fees.
Just this month, I received a summons to attend a custody
conference at the Allentown, Pa., courthouse, and another letter
informing me that an accounting error has left me short on
support payments, and that my passport may be suspended. I want
to shield my daughters from these harsh truths. So these are the
secrets I'll be trying to keep from them as we gather together
for Father's Day. What secrets will they be keeping from
me?
Stephen Perrine, the editor in chief of Best Life magazine, is
the author of the forthcoming "Desperate Husbands."
"The
boy describes being sexually assaulted by the CAS worker while being
transported in the worker's car. When the boy told the CAS worker
to get away from him and to stop touching his penis, the CAS worker told
the boy that he would never see his dad again and that he would stay in
the group home for a long time if he said anything
about the worker assaulting him. In this case, the CAS was supporting
the mother and not supporting the father. This interview was reported to
police who left the child in the care of
the same CAS agency which the boy claimed that the workers were
threatening
him. In the end, the police chose not to believe the boy but the word of
the social worker. Story after story of kids being abused and
threatened at group homes operated by child welfare
protection agencies and not being believed by authorities."
Byron Prior's 40-year struggle to bring justice to NFLD
How come you did not mention
the fact that Byron's sister got pregnant at the
tender age of twelve and delivered a baby girl?
Was that a case of Immaculate Conception or a
case of rape, or statutory rape if she went
along with it? This baby girl must have been
fathered by someone would you agree on that?
How come you did not mention the fact that this
baby girl and Byron's niece grew up and went to
work and to this very day works for a company
that is owned by the very politician who
allegedly raped Byron’s sister and made her
pregnant??
How come you decided to
ignore to mention that Byron Prior made a very
simple request that politician Byron accused of
raping his sister submit himself to a DNA
testing in order to exclude him as a father of
Byron’s nice born to his sister when his sister
was twelve years old?? How come you decided to
ignore to mention that a politician Byron
accused of raping his sister refused to submit
himself to such DNA paternity testing??
How come you decided to
ignore to mention that Byron Prior was tried
under section 301 of the Criminal Code of Canada
in 2008 in Supreme Court and Justice Lois Hoegg
dismissed all charges against Byron Prior by
finding Section 301 of the Criminal Code of
Canada unconstitutional?
How come you decided to
ignore to mention that Justice Lois Hoegg in her
ruling in May of 2008 mentioned specifically
that the Crown had ample opportunity to charge
Byron Prior under Section 300 of the Criminal
Code of Canada and chose not to proceed??
How come you decided to
ignore to mention that Justice Lois Hoegg
decision effectively barred Newfoundland Crown
from charging Byron Prior under Section 300 of
Criminal Code as it would be a clear violation
of Section 11(h) of the Canadian Charter of
Rights and Freedoms that bars double jeopardy..
11. Any person charged with an offence has the
right
(h) if finally acquitted of the offence, not to
be tried for it again and, if finally found
guilty and punished for the offence, not to be
tried or punished for it again; and
How come you decided to ignore to mention that
Newfoundland Crown basically ignored Justice
Hoegg’s decision as they never appealed it, and
charged Byron Prior for the same offences based
on the same set of facts in Provincial Court
using Section 300 of Criminal Code despite of
having plenty of opportunity on previous
occasion to argue their case in front of Justice
Hoegg in Supreme Court.
There is much more to your
hatchet job of an article that you wrote and
published in the Telegram than what I have
mentioned so far but I am not about to try to
have a public discussions based on court
materials that are not accessible to general
public.
"EDUCATION:
United Church Academy, Grand Bank; Memorial
University, St. John’s, Newfoundland; Dalhousie
University, Nova Scotia – Graduated from Dalhousie Law
School with the Degree of LL.B., May 13, 1947."
"LEGAL
EXPERIENCE: Called to the
Bar of Nova Scotia November 7, 1947, and to the Bar of
Newfoundland April 7, 1948. Practiced Law
in St. John’s,
Newfoundland, with the firm of
Barron, Lewis and Hickman from April 2, 1948, to March 31, 1953; Practiced as a
senior partner with the firm of Halley,
Hickman and Hunt, St. John’s except
during periods of absence when he was a Minister of the Crown, from August 1966 to July 1979.
Created
Queen’s CounselMay
1964 – Bencher Law Society of
Newfoundland
2957 to 1966 and Honourary Secretary – Law Society
of Newfoundland 1960 – 1966; Vice-President
– Canadian Bar Association 1959 – 1961; was a Member – International
Association Insurance Counsel; Fellow American College of Probate
Counsel; Appointed to the Supreme Court of Newfoundland as Chief Justice
of the Trial Division of that Court on December 9, 1979. Director
Canadian Institute for the Administration of Justice 1980 – 1984. Active
as a Judge with Jessup International Moot Court 1980 – 2001."
"Danny, you talk a lot
about Stephen Harper lying, come to
Ottawa and tell the whole truth about
your legal system in NL as I'm doing.
... I'll stop telling the truth about
your legal system when I die and not
before... Check out the NEW RCMP REPORTS
page on my web site. A DNA test that's
it, The WHOLE TRUTH in one stop, to easy
for you.
"Pass
on. This was a man who was illegally arrested and sent to jail on
a bench warrant and the judge refused to let him speak in his own
defense, yelled at him and ordered the sheriffs to take him away.
He had
Lou Gehrig's Disease. This absolutely disgusts me. The
guy could not work but the judge felt he could work and pay child
support. Judge Kieser is disgraceful. Also, Wilbur's ex-wife
and her attorney are disgraceful. They have no moral compass.
... "
"Description:
Since the introduction of the so called “No
Fault Divorce” in Canada, the divorce industry has
evidenced unprecedented growth estimated at $6 billion
per year. The problem is that the Legal / Court industry
thrives off the $B’s generated by Tax payers and
Families in crises. For this they provide no value and
in fact cause destruction of families by unnecessarily
removing fathers from children’s lives and lowering the
standard of living for all family
members. This is done through
unnecessary litigation, biased decisions and
unreasonable support orders which escalate conflict to
perpetuate the status quo in support of their self
serving business. The Solution is to update divorce laws
to reflect parental equality and get families out of
court eliminating significant grief and $'s wasted by
families and taxpayers. An alternative to courts is
identified in the book."
A father from Brantford, Ontario
reports his experience with Justice Edwards of the
Brantford, ON Family Court. This
father and paternal grandparents have not seen their
children in many months. As seems to be common,
this father describes how official court transcripts
have been altered and that there were two different
transcripts for the same court hearing. We know of
course that Court Transcripts cannot be released until
the Transcriber has incorporated the Judges changes to
the Transcript.
Father speaks out about abuse of his family by Canada's morally corrupt family court system from Canada Court Watch on Vimeo.
We
sadly find that Judges and Social Workers often protect
known Pedophiles and punish the children and Parents who
report them. Sexual Deviation and perversion appears to
be rampant in the Judiciary and Public Service, but
their solidarity to protect each other usually quashes
all attempts to report their conduct as Public
Officials. All who are implicated in protecting these
Perverts should face
Criminal
Breach of Trust charges, and yet they don't. We want
to know WHY?
"This was a man who was illegally arrested and sent to jail on a bench
warrant and the judge refused to let him speak in his own defense, yelled at him
and ordered the sheriffs to take him away. He had Lou Gehrig's Disease. This
absolutely disgusts me. The guy could not work but the judge felt he could work
and pay child support. Judge Kieser is disgraceful. Also, Wilbur's ex-wife and
her attorney are disgraceful. They have no moral compass."
Dr.
Stephen Baskerville on
Wilbur Streett
"I am writing on behalf of
Darrin Bruce White. I am the oldest of his four
children. My name is Ashlee A D Barnett-White. ...
No one would listen to my father , no one
would give him a chance to speak. ... My dad was an abused
husband, he was abused by his wife, and the justice system.
... He was a kind man who fought a good fight but no matter
what he did or said, he could never win with this system.
Things need to change for all fathers going through this
same thing. We need to help, too many kids go without a
father because of this , too many kids are hurt."
"Darren
White
died in March of 2000 by his own hand. BC Supreme
Court
Master Doug Baker had just ordered Darren to pay
$2,071 per month in child and spousal support. His
monthly income at the time of that order was only $950 after
taxes. He was also paying $439 a month to support an older
child from a previous marriage. He had to take stress leave
from his job as a train engineer for BC Rail. Master Baker
ordered Darren out of his home on two days notice. Darren
had nowhere to live nor any way to meet his court ordered
financial obligations. Darren was already denied access to
his children. He was 32 years old, and he had suddenly
lost everything; his home, his marriage, his children and
his dignity. Darren went into the woods near the
University of Northern BC in Prince George, and hung
himself."
Manley, Perry, RIP June 6, 2005, Police-Assisted Suicide, Seattle
"SEATTLE - A man shot and killed by officers after he brandished an inert
grenade at Seattle's new Federal Courthouse Monday was described as
angry
about child support rulings, police said. ... Court records
indicated his wages had been garnished in a child support case. ... He was shot
twice by two veteran Seattle Police Department officers. ..."
"Dr.
Rick Lohstroh was an emergency room
physician at the University of Texas Medical
Branch in Galveston, TX. On August 27th, 2004
Dr. Lohstroh was shot in the back with a hand
gun by his own ten year old son. Dr. Lohstroh’s
ex-wife,
Deborah Geisler, had been trying to alienate
the children from their father for years.
Throughout the end of their marriage and divorce
Deborah exhibited a very aggressive style of
Parental Alienation. Allegations of physical and
sexual abuse had been made by Deborah but were
proven false. At the end of the divorce Dr.
Lohstroh was awarded the couple's home in
Friendswood, TX and given equal parenting time
of his two boys. Deborah became enraged and
vengeful using the children as weapons against
their father. Copied from
Help Stop Parental Alienation Syndrome"
2004-09-xx Group homes are not good places for kids.mp3
Listen to this 10 year-old boy who was forced to stay in a group
home by the
Durham Child Advocacy Service (CAS) tells how group homes are
not nice places for kids. He says that workers at some of the group
homes he stayed in sold cigarettes to the kids. Pass this file
on to your MP and MPP and help let them know what is going on at
some of these CAS facilities.
"I live in terror every day because of what I know, and what I'm
attempting to publish. But I will not allow anyone to tell me what I
will think, which laws I will abide by!! I will not be intimidated
into ignoring laws for the benefit of criminals and I will not be
told which Charter Rights I can take advantage of and which Charter
Rights I will abandon to protect these criminals, and I will fight
with whatever is left in me against these vicious people wielding
physical weapons, and worse those willing to taint the Robes of
Justice by wielding the law as a weapon maliciously prosecuting
victims on "trumped up charges" rather than using the law as a
"shield" to protect victims against criminals."
Revocation of Social Security Number - Many pages of trials and
tribulations of a taxpayer who attempted to revoke his Social
Security number, revoked his driver's license, quit his job, and
refused to pay taxes.
How Stuff Works: Social Security Numbers - What do the numbers
on your Social Security card mean? Other frequently asked questions
about Social Security numbers (SSN). History and purpose of U.S.
Social Security system.
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